We can be so generous in the chances we give to others. We are quick to help a friend feel better who at times can’t be as supportive as we’d like, to extend a good wish to someone who took a bad day out on us, to accept a hug from someone who may have hurt us.
The ability to accept another’s imperfections speaks so well of us. We can give another another chance.
Why, then, do we hesitate to be as accepting of our own imperfections? Why do we withhold another chance from ourselves?
It seems we can be so stingy in the chances we give to ourselves. And, in our cheapness with ourselves, we choose to reprimand and rehash (I should have done better, I should have known better) rather than making peace.
When you find yourself speaking harshly with yourself after a mistake or mishap, take a moment to stop. Then, choose to be generous with yourself: Give yourself a next time.
Next time, you can be different. You can manage differently, speak kindly, act graciously.
Be generous. Give yourself a next time.
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