Mumsy
Jul 30 2011 in The Unit Known As Shandi's blog by The Unit Known as Shandi
My beautiful Mumsy went home to be with the Lord, and my Daddy, today around noon. Thank you, all, for all the love and support you’ve shown Mom and I. I’ll write more later, but right now, I think I may sleep for a week straight. I wanted to let you know, though.
G-J said on July 30, 2011
Thank you for taking the time to let us know. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Trish said on July 31, 2011
Thank you for letting us know, Shandi. Sleep well and know you were amazing and such an inspiration.
Chet Bailey said on July 31, 2011
Shandi, you did a great job! Sleep well. I continue to pray for you and your family.
Jane said on July 31, 2011
Hi Shandi:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you are able to get some much deserved rest.
Hugs:o)
Jane
Sharon said on July 31, 2011
Thank you for letting us know, Shandi. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Unit Known as Shandi said on July 31, 2011
One of the most amazing experiences about yesterday was when my 25 year old daughter stepped into the role of taking care of me. She had a very tough time facing Mom’s impending death at the beginning of July. But by yesterday afternoon, she came right over (I was actually lying beside Mom, but on the phone with my daughter when Mom went). She called Hospice. She called the funeral home. She called the 20 or more people on the list I had ready to tell them Mom was gone. She took Mom’s meds to the police station. She handled so many difficult details. The hospice nurse called her “my little pit bull” (with a big smile on her face). It was amazing to see her doing the same things for me that I’ve been doing for Mom. Loving, protecting, handling things. Her best friend, who is an “adopted” daughter to us, also came. They were amazing.
(Thank you Lord, for our determination. Amen…Mom’s prayer in February)
Jennifer said on July 31, 2011
Oh, I am so touched by this!!! What a wonderful legacy for your mom, through you, to your daughter(s)!!! (I have a couple of those “adopted” sons in addition to the biological ones.)
I believe so firmly that we live by example and that those who “experience” us may not think that they know what we know or can do what we do – but seeing, being, in the moment and just doing what is right is what we learn AND teach by living selflessly.
Sleep for as long as you need, dear, it’s one heck of a well-deserved rest!
Kathy said on July 31, 2011
Shandi,
Rest now, you’ve done a beautiful job for a long time making your mothers transition as smooth, comfortable and wrapped in love as humanly possible.
Nobody could ask for more in their life than to be well loved. Your mother surely was.
{{{gentle hugs}}}
Denise said on July 31, 2011
TUKAS–We are all so proud of you and what you accomplished. Your mom left with your love in her heart. Thanks so much for keeping us posted.
Bette said on July 31, 2011
Hi Shandi,
Your mom is at peace now. No more suffering. And, talking this all over with your dad. She experienced peace through all of this pain and sadness because of your constant love and care. Thank you for that example.
You, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you and hoping for some good sleep soon. Please take care.
Jo said on July 31, 2011
Shandi,
You and your family are in my prayers as well. Rest well my friend.
kristin said on July 31, 2011
Shandi, you gave your mother a wonderful transition. Thank you for sharing all of this with us. Rest well and take care of yourself.
Meryl said on August 2, 2011
Shandi, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. The only consolation is that she is at peace and not suffering anymore. You have been such a wonderful and caring daughter. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time ((hugs))