Very Soon…
Jul 29 2011 in The Unit Known As Shandi's blog by The Unit Known as Shandi
Yesterday afternoon about 2:00, Mom’s breathing changed drastically. The nurse was there within half an hour, and said that Mom was in her last hour or two. Mom is still here, but we are very close. She seems comfortable.
The evening was filled with lots of family (all four kids and most of the grandchildren, even the oldest great-grandchild), our pastor and his wife, and a harpist.
I slept (?) holding her close last night. My brother is here now, and I’m off to get a bath and some sleep.
We’re okay. Just want that freedom for Mom that I spoke about in my last post.
Hospice is incredible through this, and our new nurse is compassionate, helpful and knowledgeable. She’s also been very respectful of Mom’s and my decisions.
Thank you, all, for your concern and support for Mom and I.
Debbie Button said on July 29, 2011
What a beautiful photo! You are in my prayers today.
Karen said on July 29, 2011
Thinking of you and your family and keeping you in my prayers. May the Lord grant you peace and comfort.
Sharon said on July 29, 2011
Thank you for posting the photo of your Mom. She is a beautiful woman. My prayers will be with you for peace, strength, and comfort.
G-J said on July 29, 2011
Thank you for taking the time to update us.
Jennifer said on July 29, 2011
I fully trust that as the transition time moves forward and the “hole” in the universe opens, that you will feel the peace of your prayers – your mom’s freedom from pain, and your full awareness of the spectacular job you and your family are doing. I’m thinking of y’all (hey, I lived in Baltimore for a while) tonight.
J
Margo said on July 29, 2011
Hello, Margo here! Alive Hospice is excellent in giving family great support,and they have great for the care for the patient. I just went through this with my mother-in-law. It was not easy, and words cannot express what you are going through. My mother-in-law was a very sweet and caring. She was just like a mother to me. She will be truly missed but what helps comfort me is to know that she is not in anymore pain. I am a Family Caregiver and I take care of my mom. I just want to say to you..May God Bless you and your family and keep you in His care! My prayers are with you!
Margo
Liliana said on July 29, 2011
Thank you for sharing the picture of your mom with us. Thinking of you.
Kathy said on July 29, 2011
I’m holding you up in prayer Shandi.
May peace come to you all and envelope you in love.
Robert's Sister said on July 29, 2011
Shandi, Praying for peace and comfort for you and your family. You’ve been amazing.
Trish said on July 30, 2011
Shandi, Your family is in my prayers. All of you are an inspiration to me.
Denise said on July 30, 2011
Hi TUKAS–Thinking of you and your family…
Chet Bailey said on July 30, 2011
Shandi. Thanks for sharing the beautiful picture. I am praying for you and your family.