In Six Words: What’s a Successful Day?
Feb 21 2012 in Denise's Blog, Six-Word Stories by Denise
This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Elizabeth Lombardo, our happiness expert, joined me to share ideas on how to stay motivated in your caregiving role. (You can listen to our show via the player below.)
When every day seems the same, getting out of bed to face the day can seem like a Herculean task. The day seems void of possibilities, which can just seem absolutely depressing. While we can’t change the circumstances of the day, Elizabeth suggested changing our thoughts and perspective about the contents of our day.
Specifically, she suggested we change our definition of a successful day. In the past, a successful day may have involved achieving career goals or ticking off items on your To Do list or enjoying dinner and a movie out with friends and family. Days now focused on caregiving, rather than on a career or freedom, may mean each day can feel like a failure.
That’s not true. Your day has successes, maybe not visible or obvious ones. But, you have successes. So, in this six-word story, I’d love to hear your definition of a successful caregiving day. It could be:
I found peace in the slowness.
I let go. We went on.
What brought tears now brings laughs.
Please share your six-word stories in our comments, below. We’ll choose a winner to receive Take Time: A Journal and Journey Toward Greater Happiness During an Unhappy Time and a copy of our ebook, Help, A Collection of Stories by Those Who Care. Share your story by Thursday for a chance to win.
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Jane said on February 21, 2012
Not having to fight with anybody.
This to me is a successful day…
Hugs:o)
Jane ~ mom to Nicole, 17 yo, VSD, PAH, Eisenmenger’s (dx 1/22/10)
BHJS (dx 2/4/11)
“You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”
ejourneys said on February 21, 2012
I’ve got a bunch! (Some overlap.)
1. When I can transcend the chaos
2. When I find the little joys
3. Finding common ground with my caree
4. Being able to still find “me”
5. Any form of self-expression whatsoever
6. Sharing close moments with my caree
7. Finding an understanding and competent professional
8. Finding peace amidst all the unknowns
9. Finding peace in our separate world
10. Being able to overcome my fears
11. Finding an appreciation of sheer absurdity
12. Letting my instinct overrule contrary voices
13. Knowing that there’s life after depression
14. Going after even the smallest gusto
15. Giving “standard” expectations a big raspberry
Tom said on February 25, 2012
I absolutely love your list !!!
I never cease to be amazed at how much one tiny success means to my day.
In fact, I had to go and re-read it a few times and give a fist in the air for every single item.
Yes !!!
kristin said on February 21, 2012
Mary not having a sundowning episode!
Bette said on February 22, 2012
Contentment And Accomplishment In The Day
BreeAnna said on February 22, 2012
1. Handling stress is key to life.
2. Not knowing things,keeps us going
3. Stepping up can be a choice
4. all that matter: The little things
5. Don’t say, could it be worse.
Trish said on February 22, 2012
Mine would be:
Robert joking even after a seizure;
Letting go instead of being snippy;
Meryl said on February 22, 2012
Meryl not feeling stressed out again
Mom selling jewelry and looking great!
Feeling good about myself and mom
Loving quiet time and inner peace
paul beckman said on February 23, 2012
Eat. TV. Nap. Eat. Bingo. Repeat.
Shorty said on February 24, 2012
Rejoicing in my mom’s smile today!
Kathy said on February 24, 2012
Day ends with “I love you”
Denise said on February 25, 2012
Thanks so much to everyone for sharing! And, congrats to BreeAnna, who won the books.
Look for a message from me.
BreeAnna said on February 25, 2012
Thank you so much!!
laurad said on February 26, 2012
Not getting mom p…d off today!
Jan said on February 27, 2012
No nightmares for Mom last night!