All In…
Aug 29 2012 in Blogs, Caring for Parents and Kids, Jo's Blog by Jo
Mom remains in her nursing home
Dad is still in the hospital
My daughter is in a separate “seizure” diagnostic facility for the next two days
Took my son in to see the Dr for a worsening ear ache
My dog needs to go in to see the vet for shots
So I can put him in the kennel
while I’m in my office at work and my son in school
home is in disarray
contemplating going in-sane.
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Probably just in need of rest. Yesterday was a bit of a stretch as I balanced a neurologist who gave my daughter and I a now or wait forever treatment option (involving hours of driving) with tending to the needs of my father and the new medical need of my son. Haven’t seen Mom in a couple of days which is bothering me. Did put in three hours of after school parent-teacher activities last night to include open house.
Dad is s-l-o-w-l-y recovering. He’s eating again, small amounts, and will utter the occasional word. It doesn’t feel like we’re at the brink anymore. However it does feel like we’ve entered a new stage in our journey.
The highlight of a rather long and tiring day (in every Dr’s office waiting room I fell asleep while waiting) was after 9 p.m., going to my dad’s room, streaming some soothing music over my laptop and just sitting with him for a few hours, holding his hand every now and then, speaking a little so he’d know I was there but mostly just listening to music… and breathing for the two of us.
Trish said on August 29, 2012
Oh my gosh, Jo! I’ve been reading your posts but haven’t had a chance to respond yet. I’m very pleased you had a bit of time to breathe and listen to soothing music with your dad.
You have been through it/in it/ around it – oh, goodness!
Please let me know if I can help with any questions about your daughter’s seizure disorder. Feel free to email me through my personal email (thkreis@sbcglobal.net) or here on the site.
Sending hugs to everyone (even the dog!).
ejourneys said on August 29, 2012
What Trish said! (((Gentle hugs))) to you all.
I’m thankful for the music and for whatever rest you’ve been able to get. I’m praying you can get more, in something more comfortable than a waiting room chair.
Karen said on August 29, 2012
Wow Jo! What a load to carry! It sounds like you have gotten–are getting–everyone the treatment/help they need. Now, if you can just get some much-needed rest.
Ending the day, especially a long and stress-filled day, sitting and holding your father’s hand while listening to music is such a wonderful thing. It’s a bittersweet thing to know that your father has entered another stage and yet you can provide him comfort with that physical touch, with letting him know that you are with him and providing a peaceful background.
God bless!
This touches my heart as I had a very similar experience. I remember trying to explain the emotions to a friend and the importance of just sitting and holding Mom’s hand for hours.
You are always where you are supposed to be, doing what most needs doing. This is so hard now, both physically and emotionally. But you will get through it and you will never regret it.
Sharon said on August 29, 2012
Your load has been very heavy especially lately, Jo. I am concerned about you. I pray you will find time to rest and rejuvinate your body.
Denise said on August 29, 2012
Ah, Jo, I’m thinking of you and your family. I soooo hope you each receive just what you need. And, I so hope you always find just the music that makes your heart sing–wherever you are.
Bette said on August 31, 2012
Oh Jo – so much. And, managed just the way each piece should be.
I know your family feels secure and safe, knowing the care you bring to each of them.
Thinking of you. Please let us know how everyone is doing when you can.
I hope you are able to get some much needed rest over the Labor Day week-end.