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The Heart of a Caregiver

(Today, we welcome Teresa to our blogging team. You can connect with her at her profile: @teresatalk.)

I got a most welcome phone call today. For once, it wasn’t from one of my husband’s health care providers, but was from my pulmonary specialist. During my yearly exam I mentioned being tired so much and wondered if it was related to my oxygen issues. My thyroid checked out alright, so is this what old age feels like, or what? (I’m just a mere 63!)

He set me up for an echo-cardiogram two days later, and I’ve been waiting on pins and needles all weekend for the results. You see, my scoliosis is so bad, my lungs are already affected, requiring me to be on a Bi-pap with oxygen at night. I was so afraid that my deformed chest cavity might be affecting my heart function as well, as I’ve been warned might happen at some point in my senior years.

My main worry if this were the case was, of course, being able to take care of my husband. He has dementia from a traumatic brain injury involving a tractor, and although his body is strong as iron, it seems, I really have to do virtually everything that pertains to our existence.

I know how limiting heart disease can make your life, and it would be disastrous for us if I was not able to do my daily caregiving duties. My daughter, grown with two toddlers of her own now, would just have to fill in the gaps. I really think she is mature enough for that role. She already helps me out with some of the rougher housekeeping tasks–shampooing carpets, for instance. I call her my caregiver-in-training.

It was music to my ears though to hear the nurse tell me on the phone today that my heart seems to be doing just fine. They didn’t even see any hypertension. There was some stiffness in areas, but she said that was common with those over fifty. I wished she was talking to me in person so I could give her a hug. At least one load was lifted off my shoulders for the day.

My lungs may be wimpy, but it seems I still have the heart for being a caregiver. So thankful…


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  1. Avatar of Sue

    Very happy for you Teresa! And a beautiful way of putting it!

  2. Avatar of G-J

    Welcome! Thank you for becoming a fellow-blogger here on A BIG thank you for sharing your good news! Yeah!! :)

  3. Avatar of Richard

    Teresa, first welcome to and if all your future posts are like this one, I’ll be reading them all. Any questions regarding the site please let me know and I love your heart art work.

  4. Avatar of Jan

    Awesome news, Teresa! Praise God! I know that’s a weight off your mind. Glad to see you posting… :)

  5. Avatar of Denise

    Hi Teresa–I’m so glad you are blogging! So glad for your good news. You have a beautiful heart. :)

    Looking forward to reading your next post.

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    Great news, enjoyed your post.

  7. Avatar of EllysGdaughter

    Welcome Teresa! So glad to hear your story. What a help it is to have a caregiver in training! I look forward to hearing and sharing more with you.

  8. Avatar of tiredamy2007

    Yay you. I am so glad that u r ok. Good to me u too. I am Amy and i take care of my parents. Looking forward to getting to know u better.

  9. Avatar of Teresatalk

    Thank you all for your encouraging comments. I will definitely share more as time permits and events unfold. Never a dull moment in this household!

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