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NOOOOOO! Not the Cat!!

Jun 12 2013 in , by G-J

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I’m pretty sure I’ve said this before, so please bear with me while I say again that if you’re a caregiver, other things should go smoothly in life. It’s like there should be a deal with the universe that you’re already dealing with something HUGE so you don’t have to deal with any other problems [...]

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Full Moon

May 29 2013 in , by G-J

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It was obvious that there was a full moon recently.  There has been a slight change in things, but I don’t know if it’s temporary or permanent, which adds to the challenge. Saturday morning the three of us were talking. Our son said something and repeated it and Steve still didn’t seem to hear it [...]

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The Test

May 23 2013 in , by G-J

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Tomorrow I’m having a colonoscopy. From here on out we’re referring to it as The Test because c-o-l-o-n-o-s-c-o-p-y is too much to type. This has been scheduled since early last month. I let Steve and our son know and had already arranged for a friend to take me for the appointment. She’s not a morning [...]

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How Others Rationalize Away Helping

May 6 2013 in , by G-J

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My neighbor’s wife has cancer. I found out around Christmas when I went to their house to deliver the trail mix that we make for them each year. The cancer was in her jaw and she had to have reconstructive surgery. I didn’t know his wife was ill, and neither did the other neighbors. I [...]

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Unexpected Gifts

Jan 1 2013 in by G-J

Sometimes we are handed unexpected gifts and if we aren’t observant, we miss them.  Earlier this month, Steve had an appointment with his neurologist.  His goal was to get 100% on his tests.  There really isn’t such a thing as 100% on the tests, but it was a good goal. The next day, Steve was [...]

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Walk to End Alzheimer’s

Oct 27 2012 in by G-J

Today, Steve and I participated in the Walk to End Alzheimer’s.  Our team, “Walk for the Health of It!” had four members who raised money and walked.  As a team we have currently raised $2,700 and are in fifth place for fundraising.  Pretty cool! I was asked if I would speak at the opening ceremony.  [...]

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Letter to the Editor

Sep 27 2012 in by G-J

We receive two free newspapers each week. These are the type of papers my Mom called “throwaways”. You don’t pay for them or subscribe to them, but they appear. They carry the local news. Very local. In honor of World Alzheimer’s Month, I wrote a letter to the editor of each paper. It was published [...]

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Unusual, But Good

Sep 25 2012 in by G-J

Last week was an unusual week.  Not bad, just different in positive ways, actually.  Monday we went to the local university, not for testing this time but to be interviewed for a new story.  On Friday we would be participating, for the second time, in a panel discussion at an Alzheimer’s conference.  We were one [...]

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Walk for the Health of It!

Sep 19 2012 in by G-J

Steve and I are participating in the Walk to End Alzheimer’s next month at Knott’s Berry Farm. Last year I walked and Steve worked at the Advocacy booth. I  am the captain of team, “Walk for the Health of It!”, named with the assistance of our teenaged son. Being captain doesn’t mean anything more than [...]

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Fresh Starts

Sep 13 2012 in by G-J

The new year started on August 27th. No, I’m not crazy. To me the new year starts on the first day of school, and both Steve and our son started school that day. The start of the school year is a time of change for all of us. It includes new school supplies and new [...]

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Hiccoughs

Sep 11 2012 in by G-J

“What did everyone think of our last meeting?” the discussion moderator asked. “Brutal” was my succinct answer. “Brutal? Why?” “Because it was very difficult to sit here and listen to Steve say that he has to battle depression on a daily basis when it was obviously painful for him to say that.” “Well, I did [...]

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Why I Don’t Tell

Sep 4 2012 in by G-J

I have learned that people with anything that falls under the dementia umbrella travel in pairs.  It is always the caregiver and the caree, so when I refer to being in a group of people, half of them are caregivers and half of them are carees. Whenever we are in a group of people with [...]

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Gasp!

Aug 30 2012 in by G-J

I made a mistake this summer.  In an e-mail, someone asked me what I would do when my son returned to school now that I no longer had a couple of my volunteer responsibilities.  My mistake was that I said I didn’t know what I’d be doing but I was sure something would come up.  [...]

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July in Review

Aug 3 2012 in by G-J

July started with a visit to Steve’s neurologist.  It was a very positive visit, with the doctor pleased with everything Steve’s doing and how well he’s doing.  Instead of being told to return in four months, we were told to return in four to six months.  We actually made the follow-up appointment for four months [...]

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San Francisco Perspective

Jul 27 2012 in by G-J

This year for our vacation we spent a week in San Francisco.  Let me answer the most commonly asked questions about our vacation and get that out of the way.  Yes, we stayed in the same hotel for the entire week.  No, we did not go onto Alcatraz, the Golden Gate Bridge, or down Lombard [...]

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Dialysis Information Needed

Jul 23 2012 in by G-J

Steve has two brothers, both of which have their own unique health problems.  Their mother died at the beginning of May.  Steve’s younger brother has been the  caregiver for their father, helping him through a back surgery after a fall in late May/early June. I just got off the phone with my brother-in-law.  Due to [...]

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Grandpa Dave’s Memory Album

Jul 11 2012 in by G-J

Last week I stumbled across an episode of the PBS Kids program, Arthur. It is a program our son watched when he was young, and it’s fun to stop and watch an episode if I see one on TV. The TV show was “born” in 1996, the same year as my son. Unlike my son, [...]

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July 3rd Through July 6th

Jul 6 2012 in by G-J

July 3rd – I woke Steve up at 6:00am. This is his new time to get up Monday through Thursday as he has started taking a psychology class those morning at the local community college. He likes to take a class because it keeps his mind working and I like him to take a class [...]

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Rock the Vote!

Jun 28 2012 in by G-J

Good morning! Denise has helped all of us through caregiving.com, and now it’s time for us to help her! You have read that Denise has applied for a $250,000 grant. In order to move to the next round, she needs 250 people to vote for her. We are an amazing, powerful group of people!  We [...]

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It Wasn’t The Straw, It Was The Salsa

Jun 14 2012 in by G-J

This week, Tuesday night’s show on Your Caregiving Journey was about stress and caregiving. We’re in a place right now where things are relatively calm in the caregiving aspect of my life. The rest of my life, though, has been a bit insane.  And then when there is an issue in caregiving, it can be [...]

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Negative is Positive

May 31 2012 in by G-J

Sometimes hearing negative news is positive. That was the case today. Steve had a biopsy last Friday and I was able to get the results over the phone today and the biopsy came back negative. Whew and yeah! This is wonderful negative news! Although we were trying not to worry, it was a great relief [...]

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Older Americans Month

May 10 2012 in by G-J

May is Older Americans Month and the theme this year is Never Too Old To Play! I discovered this through Twitter, and have made great use of this information. On Tuesday mornings I teach Keep Your Brain Buff at the senior center. Teaching the class keeps my brain buff, keeps me on my toes, tests [...]

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