Denise on August 12th, 2009

The Alzheimer’s Daily News included a link to the video, below, in today’s briefings. It’s a short, foreign film (with sub-titles) that reminds us to love, especially during those moments when we don’t think we can.
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Denise on August 10th, 2009

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I’ve been doing my best to reduce my carbon footprint. The footprint I want to leave in world is not one that slogs through a landfill.
Which makes me wonder:
What footprint would you like to leave behind after your caregiving role ends?
Your footprint could be the calming words a friend told you [...]

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Denise on July 26th, 2009

A new member of one of our online support groups recently wrote me with an interesting thought. “I think caregiving deserves its own diagnosis,” she said.
Hmm… So, I asked Donna, who has a M.S. in counseling and cares for her mother, to expand on her idea. My questions and her answers follow.
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Denise on July 15th, 2009

I believe it’s important to encourage family caregivers to recognize and celebrate their successes as a caregiver. I often hear from family caregivers: How can I be successful if every decision I make seems to make my relative absolutely miserable?
I’m reminded of conversation many years ago with Mirca Liberti, co-founder of Children of Aging Parents, [...]

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Denise on June 18th, 2009

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Arrive everywhere loved.
–Mariah, wife of Ron Gladis, one of our 2009 Caregiver of the Year award winners
You probably have heard the expression: “You have to feel it to heal it.”
That, often, is easier said than done.
To feel our shame, we must feel safe. We might find that safety in a support group, in [...]

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Denise on June 17th, 2009

(Editor’s Note: This is the second part of a three-part series on shame and its role in your caregiving experience. In our second part, we take a look at how shame enters a caregiving situation.)
When I think of how shame can come to a caregiving role, I think of Jeannette, a woman I helped care [...]

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Denise on June 16th, 2009

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(Editor’s Note: This is the first part of a three-part series on shame and its role in your caregiving experience. In our first part, we look at the origins of shame.)
For you, it may have started with a comment or remark or a look. “Typically children are shamed when they wet [...]

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