Denise on March 9th, 2010

A family caregiver shared this tip with me several years ago; it’s so good I never forgot it.
The family caregiver kept a bag packed with toiletries and change of clothes ready to go in case her caree was suddenly hospitalized. This way, she arrived at the hospital with her bag, ready to stay as long [...]

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Denise on March 2nd, 2010

In caregiving, the world can seem to consist of “either…or.” The world, then, might become these thoughts:

Either I put my needs second or my caree doesn’t have his needs met.
Either I stay with my caree constantly or bad things will happen.
Either I put my life on hold or my caree will not have what he [...]

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The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services’ (CMS) Ask Medicare initiative has developed two new videos to help you successfully manage your caree’s transition from the hospital to home setting. The videos present practical and easy-to-follow tips.

The first video, Tips for Making a Hospital to Home Transition, provides insights and expert guidance on important issues [...]

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Sue is the consummate caregiver: She cares for her three school-aged children, her parents and her in-laws, all who live nearby. Since her youngest started kindergarten, she has been interested in starting a part-time, [...]

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Denise on January 16th, 2010

This week, we took a closer look at a situation that’s common but sometimes not shared. We asked: When do you wish for the pink slip from caregiving?
Today, on Table Talk, we tackled some of the top reasons you may feel like walking and then offered some suggestions we hope makes it easier to stay. [...]

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Denise on January 10th, 2010

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Liz has a debate going on in her head and a torment going on in her heart.
It’s been a bad day. And, not for any particular reason that Liz can pinpoint. It could be that her youngest will turn 10 soon. Or that next week her mom will be [...]

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When you hit the pillow at 10 p.m. last night, you thought: I hope tomorrow will be better.
But, tonight, at 12:30 a.m., you think: This starting over every day is just killing me.
We often talk about the constant of caregiving—change. With change, comes its sister: Starting Over. Every day, you may feel like you’re starting [...]

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Denise on December 19th, 2009

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I think we’re in for it this weekend. When you’re not out shoveling, you find yourself inside staring at your four walls and your care recipient. Or, you may be staring at your phone, hoping your care recipient will be okay.
We’ve got some articles to help you weather [...]

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Denise on September 21st, 2009

I often wonder: Am I my own worst enemy?
You may ask yourself that same question after losing patience with your care recipient, or letting a family member get your goat, or when you regain the weight you worked so hard to lose.
These situations can make you very, very unhappy. Seemingly, happiness is reserved for actors [...]

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Skye on September 17th, 2009

A healthy life is a life of balance; including the ability to give and receive.
When I first started my caregiving journey, one of the hardest things to accept was HELP.
So many people in our lives wanted to help. I definitely needed the help.
But, like so many people, I didn’t know how to ask. And I [...]

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