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  1. Aimee

    Stove Burners

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    Okay, so just now for the third time in a couple of weeks, dear FIL has turned on stove burners. He thinks that they are on already and that he is turning them off. But in reality they were off and he is turning them on high! The first time...
  2. Aimee

    Life Is Better with Sleep! :)

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    Praising God for a few restful nights in a row…everything is easier after a full night’s sleep. The sleeping pill is working better for FIL. With a full dose, he was still getting up the first four nights several times. Then it was only two times, then one. Then last...
  3. Aimee

    Today Is a New Day…

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    The sun is shining and I should be able to get moving and get things done. But, I am …  I am tired and discouraged. My mind is whirling with how to handle things better. Trying to be the perfect wife, perfect mom, perfect care giver…and I am failing. So...
  4. Aimee

    When Is It Time?

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    (Editor’s Note: Today, we welcome a new blogger, Aimee, who joined the site a few days ago. You can read more about Aimee by visiting her profile here.) My husband and I actually discussed the idea of nursing home placement for my dear father-in-law (FIL) last night. He has Parkinson’s...
  5. BreeAnna

    I’m Still Around..

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    I am still around here somewhere… I think. Maybe sometimes I am but most of the time I am looking for myself or I am purposely trying to hide. Things are actually going pretty well. My mom is doing well and still progressing and getting better. She is walking more...
  6. Bette

    S.A.T.S.

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    “Staying Above The Slowness” I’ve been pondering this over the past week or so. The slowness here has increased and at times I feel as though I have to guard against being sucked into it. May sound odd, but it almost feels contagious at times – like a yawn might...
  7. Bette

    I Wonder Why

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    My mother is very confused today and very, very sad. She doesn’t know where she is; she thinks I’m her husband. She was shaking and beginning to cry so I sat down on the floor in front of her. I tried to be strong. I told her it was okay and...
  8. BreeAnna

    It’s Going…

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    …pretty well. Latest news is that an elderly family friend just moved in. Haven’t quite decided what that means as in if she is helping out or we are helping her yet. But everything seems to be cool as of right now. My mother is doing amazing in therapies. Speech decided to...
  9. Bette

    Guarding

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    Over the past twenty-four hours we’ve had visits from our Hospice nurse, the doctor from Hospice, a foot doctor, two different aides, a volunteer from Hospice and a woman who was hoping to wash my mother’s hair. Together we were able to stand my mother up, but she had to sit...
  10. Bette

    She’s Still a Mom

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    I wanted to post an update today. This morning my mother was experiencing pain in her chest. I called Hospice and they told me to give her morphine. If she was experiencing something cardiac-related, the morphine would open up her blood vessels. I gave her the medicine and she began...
  11. Bette

    Learning

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    “Who is he?” my mother said, pointing to my son Rees. When I explained that he was my son, she asked, “Who gave him to you?” and “Why did they give him to you?” We continued to talk about Rees. My mother is so tired and so confused. She often looks...
  12. Bette

    Where Is…

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    …the girl that is always around me? Where is my daughter? Where is Bette-Lou? My mother wouldn’t give me a kiss good-night tonight. She didn’t know who I was. It must be such a sinking feeling for her to not know where I am or why I’ve disappeared. She thinks...
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