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  1. Denise

    Obama Administration Presents Plan to Fight Alzheimer’s Disease

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    Health and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius yesterday released an ambitious national plan to fight Alzheimer’s disease. The plan was called for in the National Alzheimer’s Project Act (NAPA), which President Obama signed into law in January 2011. The National Plan to Address Alzheimer’s Disease sets forth five goals, including...
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    Flat

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    Sometimes, you feel like you fall flat on your face. When you do, you wish you could just lay flat; it just seems easier for life to climb over you so you can hide from it. You’ve flat-lined. How do you get up? You become round, full of life and...
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    Bright

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    At first, it feels like a few flickers, like what happens to lights during a terrible storm. It’s a lessening of who you were. Then, it feels like the lights just go out and you’re no longer who you used to be. Caregiving can dim your bright light before you...
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    How Many Opinions Are Too Many?

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    (Editor’s Note: Today, we welcome a guest post from Crystal Fornes, a nurse practitioner and patient advocate with more than 10 years of experience.) In my work as a nurse and healthcare navigator, family caregivers tell me they want solid opinions and more concrete explanations from their caree’s doctors. They...
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    Jan’s in USA Today

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    Congrats to Jan, who blogs here on caring for her mom, for making today’s USA Today. Jan shared her perspective on caring for her mom in the article, “Caring for Elderly Parents Catches Many Unprepared.” “When you get into the trenches, it’s literally baptism by fire,” she explains in the...
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    Open

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    The tasks of caregiving can be deceiving. They lead you to believe that completing the tasks will give you closure. Sometimes. At times, the tasks can bring closure. Your caree needs a new doctor so you research, investigate and find the best one. You mark the file “closed.” You need...
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    Bake

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    In your caregiving role, you’ll hear lots of half-baked ideas. Ideas like: Since  you’re so stressed, why don’t you just find a nursing home for him? Since it’s such a worry for you, why don’t you just divorce him? Since it’s such a struggle for you, why don’t you get...
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    Business

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    The business of caregiving often gets in the way of the purpose of caregiving. The business is the paperwork, the appointments, the budget. The business is also the drama—the fights, the battles, the clenched fists and crossed arms. All that business gets in the way of the true purpose of...
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    More Funding to Come for Alzheimer’s Research, Caregiver Support

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    This morning, the Obama Administration announced it will make more money available for Alzheimer’s research and caregiving support. The official announcement reads: The Obama Administration today announced new efforts to fight Alzheimer’s disease, including immediately making an additional $50 million available for cutting-edge Alzheimer’s research. In addition, the administration announced...
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    Hole

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    Sometimes, the struggle in your life can feel like hole in the toe of your sock when you’re wearing boots on a snowy day. It’s irritating, uncomfortable and aggravating. In the moment, it also seems unsolvable, like it will last forever. Like you will always be walking in your boots...
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    Soft

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    Oh, this caregiving is so hard! It’s making your life hard, your day hard, your heart hard. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if caregiving seemed like the softest mattress possible, always giving such a comfortable landing. Or, that it tasted like the most wonderful soft-serve ice cream, so creamy and delicious...
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    Look Up

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    How many times during the day do you catch yourself looking down? Perhaps you look down because the weight of caregiving seems too heavy. Or, maybe you look down because it feels like your life is down there—going down the drain, flushing down the toilet. Or, you might be looking...
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    Your Tips: Your House of Worship and Your Caree

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    This morning, Claire Day, Vice President of Constituent Services for the Alzheimer’s Association Delaware Valley Chapter, joined me for our monthly discussion about dementia care. We spoke about how to keep your caree’s spirituality alive—in your house worship and at home. You can listen to our show via the player...
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    Your Caree Declines, Your Health Care Costs Increase

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    Yesterday, at the Gerontological Society of America annual conference in Boston, The National Alliance for Caregiving released its most recent study of family caregivers of people with Alzheimer’s disease, Caregiving Costs: Declining Health in the Alzheimer’s Caregiver as Dementia Increases in the Care Recipient. According to the study, a family...
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    Preventing Delirium in Your Hospitalized Caree

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    Chances are, during one of your caree’s hospitalizations, you noticed that your caree experienced a significant level of confusion. The sudden change in your caree’s mental status during a hospitalization can be startling, upsetting and scary. Unfortunately, the sudden confusion, known as delirium, among the hospitalized elderly is an awful...
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    One Word to Start Your Journal

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    On Saturday, I presented a workshop at a Family Caregivers Conference in Gwinnett County, just outside of Atlanta. My presentation, “Secret Stress Buster—Embracing Limits,” helped attendees understand the importance of recognizing their limits in caregiving. We think we have an infinite amount of patience or tolerance or strength or compassion....
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