• Hi Jane,
    One test, one challenge at a time – and you are doing it! so very well (:

    Thinking of you today as Nicole has her echo. I hope you’ll soon have a reprieve from the tests, giving you time to think and […]

  • Hi G-J,

    All of what you describe seems to bring me back to thinking about communication within the medical community. One of the main reasons our carees need us (:

    I’m so glad you continue to communicate […]

  • Bette commented on the post, A Letter 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hi Ejourneys,
    I so enjoyed reading your letter. I love that you offered Santa what he needs as well. Your letter has an ongoing theme of an alternative definition of gift giving. (:

    I think through the many […]

  • Bette and Profile picture of donnadonna are now friends 5 months, 2 weeks ago

  • Hi Bob,
    Thank you for sharing your words and writing, with us. I love your reference to miracles: “to expect little miracles.” It’s those small miracles that truly provide hope, bright enough to keep us going. […]

  • Bette commented on the post, Caregiving… 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    Hi Jane,
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions.

    I understand about feeling pulled. You’re so wise to think about this as seriously as you do. I felt pulled in caregiving as well – in the day to […]

  • Bette commented on the post, If Only… 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    Hi Jan,
    Thank you so much. Such a wonderful sentiment for your mom and for others whose world, as you said, has become small. Jan, you are an example of loyalty. Your mom is so blessed to have someone so strong […]

  • Bette posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Bob posted an update I am hurting so deeply watching the suffering my wife continues to endure. More to come on this experience…exhausted, Bob View

    Hi Bob,
    I’m so sorry. The sincere empathy and concern you show for your wife is a gift. They will bring comfort to her in a way that is more meaningful than you can know. We’re thinking of you both.

    • Thank you so much Christine and Bette. My wife had a Pick line put in at the hospital yesterday and was admitted in order to start an anti-biotic for a bacterial infection. Precautions were taken to start the anti-biotic in the hospital because of the possibility of a severe allergic reaction. I got some work done at home today; slept a little…[Read more]

      • Rest Bob, people will understand & that was nice your former job and staff are caring and compassionate to be there for you in your time in need.
        I have been working & cleaning up house and never take life for granted, I do what I need to do, as well be there for others and have energy for my family. I’m gonna rest my body’s sore from working…[Read more]

  • Hi Bob,
    I think one very positive thing to keep in mind is how you and your wife talk through the emotions that come. The hole you describe is not an easy one to understand. It has more power than we realize – as […]

  • Hi Denise,
    Thank you for sharing your walk with us.

    As I think about the “You’ll Be Okay” videos that you’ve challenged us with on AfterGiving – I’m reminded of the word ‘purpose’.

    In the daily challenges […]

  • Hi Trish,
    You did a great job! Thank you for sharing Denise.

  • Hi Ejourneys,

    I love the photo – thank you for sharing! And, I’m so glad the Butterball check bought so many wonderful things. Thank you for showing your bumper sticker as well – you’re disrupting even as you drive!

  • Hi Ejourneys,

    I’m so glad for you both. I think it’s great that your partner would like to go as well! The first Saturday is coming up – I’ll be anxious to hear more.

    As you know, I began a support group for […]

  • Bette commented on the post, Small Room, Big Change 6 months ago

    Hi Pegi,
    I’m so glad you received the help that you needed – including the dinner. So glad to hear your update and that you and your husband are settled while you await your new home. Thinking of you both and […]

  • Bette commented on the post, Giving Thanks in 2012 6 months ago

    Hi Jo,

    I am thankful as well for you! I am grateful for how you share your wisdom and insights on family, and living. I wish you and your family a very special day on Thursday.

  • Bette commented on the post, Update 6 months ago

    Hi Jane,
    Thinking and praying for you both today. I’m glad for the questions that you have thought to ask. It’s important you feel as though you can ask them, you know Nicole and her needs more than anyone. I […]

  • Hi Chris,
    Such good reminders. In remembering, they help to keep the track as straight as possible in caregiving. The turns are so hard to ride sometimes – but keeping ourselves in check is always a […]

  • Bette answered question “Trying to Be Prepared6 months, 1 week ago

  • Bette and Profile picture of PamPam are now friends 6 months, 1 week ago

  • Bette posted a new activity comment 6 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Pam posted an update I am my husband’s caregiver. We’ve been married for 20 years. He is a liver transplant survivor – received his new liver, February 3, 2011. The first few months (after his initial recovery) […] View

    Welcome Pam. I’m so sorry for the new challenges. So glad you found Caregiving.com and looking forward to getting to know you and your husband.

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