• jill posted a new activity comment 21 hours, 12 minutes ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update Thank you everyone for your concern and support. Tomorrow hubby goes for anuclear test for his kidney. Hopefully he will get through it ok. He is supposed to lay flat for this test which has […] View

    Thank you Denise for your wait buddy offer. My stepdaughter is taking her dad tomorrow so I don’t have to miss more work. I don’t have much time left so she has been helping me when I need her. Thank God. I will keep you posted. Thank you

  • jill posted an update 1 day ago

    Thank you everyone for your concern and support. Tomorrow hubby goes for anuclear test for his kidney. Hopefully he will get through it ok. He is supposed to lay flat for this test which has been a problem since his sci but I spoke to a nurse at the place and she said they could elevate his head. I also called the doc and got him some ativan so…[Read more]

    • I have been thinking of you! Thank you so much for keeping us posted. Let us know how it goes tomorrow.

      Do you need a WAIT Buddy tomorrow? We have volunteers who send text messages during waits–like a hospitalization or a procedure or a test. If you need one, just send me a private message.

      • Thank you Denise for your wait buddy offer. My stepdaughter is taking her dad tomorrow so I don’t have to miss more work. I don’t have much time left so she has been helping me when I need her. Thank God. I will keep you posted. Thank you

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  • jill posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update Got some really bad news at the doctors this morning my husbands left kidney is blocked so therefore it is not functioning. He said if we don’t try to unblock it he will end up on dyalasis […] View

    Thank you pegs. I appreciated all you guys so much. So far we are not making any decisions they want to keep a close eye on him for a while

  • jill posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update Got some really bad news at the doctors this morning my husbands left kidney is blocked so therefore it is not functioning. He said if we don’t try to unblock it he will end up on dyalasis […] View

    Hi denise thank you. Friday day morning we went to see the kidney specialist. For now they are changing some of his mess and sending him for some tests. I guess for now they are going to keep a close eye on him and keep checking his kidney function and go from there

    • Denise replied 1 week ago

      I’ve got my fingers crossed for you.

      How are you holding up?

      I’m grateful for your updates–thanks for keeping us in the loop.

  • jill posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    Got some really bad news at the doctors this morning my husbands left kidney is blocked so therefore it is not functioning. He said if we don’t try to unblock it he will end up on dyalasis and if we do go in and unblock it there still is a chance he could end up on dyalasis. Either way the out come is not good. I don’t know how much more either…[Read more]

    • Oh, Jill, I am so sorry. What awful news. It is too much.

      What’s the next step? Do you have another consult and them make a decision?

      • Hi denise thank you. Friday day morning we went to see the kidney specialist. For now they are changing some of his mess and sending him for some tests. I guess for now they are going to keep a close eye on him and keep checking his kidney function and go from there

        • Denise replied 1 week ago

          I’ve got my fingers crossed for you.

          How are you holding up?

          I’m grateful for your updates–thanks for keeping us in the loop.

    • Jill, so sorry to read about your husband’s lasted health crisis. Please keep us posted; and know you are not alone. We’re all here cheering you on. Your in my thoughts and prayers for a good outcome.

      • Thank you pegs. I appreciated all you guys so much. So far we are not making any decisions they want to keep a close eye on him for a while

    • Jill, I just read your message and I hope things are better! My husband just went through a kidney blockage, finally passed a kidney stone on his own and is now much better! I hope for some quick solutions for your husband! If you need to gab, please call – I’ll pm my number. Hang in there!!

  • Hi cassandra thankyou for sharing. I was literally brought to tears reading your story. It hit so close to home. You are an inspiration to me. Keep up the great work. I will keep you in y prayers

  • jill posted an update in the group Group logo of Spinal Cord InjurySpinal Cord Injury 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    So hubby is progressing well. He started back with pt this week I am very happy. He has some issues with his vision but after a trip to the eye doc we found out the problem will resolve it self after a while. So the biggest problem we have going on this week is I don’t think we are going to have enough money to pay the bills this month. Tom says…[Read more]

  • jill posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Lee posted an update Please forgive me if my first post is supposed to be pleasant and friendly but right now I am not in a ’happy’ place. I don’t want to be here! I don’t want any of this and yet, I made a […] View

    Hi Lee I was just reading about your situation. I seriously know exactly how you feel my husband broke his neck last summer and just like your husband it was about two weeks before we knew his was broke. First of all I hope he is ok did he get any pt and did it help? I really undstand what you are going through not only do you have the stress…[Read more]

  • Hi Peggy welcome home. I am so happy for you guys. I couldn’t imagine being away fro. m home all that time. My husband is recovering from a spinal cord injury as well so I understand how challenging it can be. At […]

  • jill and Profile picture of PegiPegi are now friends 3 months, 2 weeks ago

  • jill posted an update in the group Group logo of Spinal Cord InjurySpinal Cord Injury 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    So tom woke me up at three tis morning having trouble breathing which I am sure is a result of the cold he is getting over. Boy it’s great to live in the north east. Any way gave him a breathing treatment and he still had some trouble for a while but by seven or so he seemed much better. He made me go to work so now I have been wording about him…[Read more]

  • jill posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update in the group Spinal Cord Injury Does any one have any ideas on what I can say when tom gets discouraged? Even though he’s getting better he gets upset cause he has no strength in his right arm. View

    Hey squirrel how’s it going i pretty much do exactely what you said. When he gets discouraged I always pooint out the positive and how much progress he’s made. Like when he first came home he couldn’t lift a fork to his mouth now he can lift a 4pound weight. In fact Sunday he was helping the guys with fire wood. Of course he over did it and…[Read more]

  • jill posted an update in the group Group logo of Spinal Cord InjurySpinal Cord Injury 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    Does any one have any ideas on what I can say when tom gets discouraged? Even though he’s getting better he gets upset cause he has no strength in his right arm.

    • Hi Jill! My husband Andy didn’t move his left arm for over a year but now uses it all the time – in fact, he uses it now for gas and brakes to drive. Consider everything a work in progress and try to help him focus on moving forward. It may take awhile, but if he can keep up the determination and willpower to know that his hard work will one…[Read more]

      • Hey squirrel how’s it going i pretty much do exactely what you said. When he gets discouraged I always pooint out the positive and how much progress he’s made. Like when he first came home he couldn’t lift a fork to his mouth now he can lift a 4pound weight. In fact Sunday he was helping the guys with fire wood. Of course he over did it and…[Read more]

  • jill posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update in the group Spinal Cord Injury Good new we had an appointment with the neurosurgeon yesterday and he was very pleased with Tom’s progress. Hope all is going well with everybody this week. View

    Thankyou. No I drove. The Des office is almost an hour away.

  • jill posted an update in the group Group logo of Spinal Cord InjurySpinal Cord Injury 4 months ago

    Good new we had an appointment with the neurosurgeon yesterday and he was very pleased with Tom’s progress. Hope all is going well with everybody this week.

  • jill posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: SCI Recovery Specialist became a registered member View

    Welcome sci recovery specialist. Unfortunately I don’t live near atlanta in fact I live in New York. I am planning to research the Christopher Reeve foundation. But just a little back round information. My husband has been injured in july since September he has been receiving pt and can walk but is unsteady. He still has many months of therapy to…[Read more]

  • jill posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: jill posted an update in the group Spinal Cord Injury Ok so we had a really good weekend. Tom drove for the first time since his surgery. This was a huge step for him physically and mentally. Things were great til […] View

    I can’t thank you enough for your help. Tom did come back last night and acted like I deserved to be treated that way. I don’t know how to make him understand how much he hurts me sometimes.

    • Jill, These moments are always tough. But the best I can suggest is patience and to let him get it out of his system. However, at the same time..you are right..with all the new tasks you are taking on..it can wear you down. One day…when he’s calm talk to him about it. Let him know that if he needs to do that…that it is okay…as long as…[Read more]

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