• Hi Pegi–I am so sorry for your loss. But it is such a blessing for you to be with your mother at her passing. No matter the age, it is always too soon to let our parents go. My heart aches for you. I know how […]

  • Karen posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Mona Wolters posted an update in the group General Sometimes I think my mother doesn’t love me. I think I’m taking things to heart. She has a little dementia, and her moods change from day to day. Today she’s […] View

    Hi Mona–Denise has offered some wise advice.

    It’s so hard not to be hurt when a family member, especially a parent, treats you badly. Any form of dementia really drastically affects how people behave. The feelings you describe are very normal; it’s hard not to be depressed and angry; it’s hard not to feel stressed. It’s really important to…[Read more]

  • Karen commented on the post, The Dilemma 2 months, 4 weeks ago

    Hi EJ,

    I just had to comment because I went through similar things with my brother, who was a hoarder It’s so frustrating and so scary. And it’s hard for other people to understand why it’s so nearly […]

  • So thoroughly enjoyed this! Fun clues!!

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  • Bette, Thank you so much for your beautiful message. You have been and continue to be an inspiration to me.

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  • Karen posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Judy joined the group General View

    Hi Judy,

    Welcome to Caregiving.com and the Caring for Parents group.

    I think this site is a great place to connect with others who understand your situation. I encourage you to read and share. It’s a way to get away without having to leave your caree. It’s a place where you can vent, share feelings, and ask questions.

    I have been (kind of…[Read more]

  • Karen posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Under the Rug joined the group General View

    Hi,

    There’s no better place to vent than here at Caregiving.com. No one “gets it” like other caregivers. It’s a good place to go to for advice, comfort and to just get things off your chest.

    One of the best pieces of advice I received was that you also have to be your own caregiver during the caregiving years. And, yes, I know form…[Read more]

  • Karen commented on the post, Rally 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    Wow! This really hit me. Mom had so many rallies. She came back so often. At the end, she had one last rally and had a really good day.

    When she died, it was so hard for me to accept that she wouldn’t just […]

  • Jane–

    You are such a good Mo and a great advocate for Nicole. With all that Nicole has been through and all that she still deals with, she absolutely does not need to deal with anything more.

    And having a […]

  • Karen commented on the post, The End 8 months ago

    Jo,
    I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to lose a parent, even if/when it’s expected. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  • Karen commented on the post, Update on Mom 8 months ago

    Hi Meryl,

    I’m so sorry that you’ve been through yet another scare–and so glad to know your Mom is doing better.

    The ups and downs are so hard to take emotionally. I hope for more good days for both of you.

  • Hi Pegi,

    Boy, can I relate! I was so obsessive for so long about my mother’s care especially. NO ONE could take care of her as well as I could.

    I, too, learned the hard way, to ask for a little help. Not […]

  • Karen commented on the post, How Will It End? 8 months ago

    Jo,

    While it may be difficult for your children to spend so much time away form them, you are always where you most need to be. Being with your father right now must be comforting to him on some level. It’s […]

  • Pegi–

    I love this! Isn’t it wonderful that your husband takes care of you, too! He sounds very special. So are you, to recognize what he does and gives back.

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