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Karen commented on the post, My Mother’s Final Gift 3 weeks, 4 days ago
Hi Pegi–I am so sorry for your loss. But it is such a blessing for you to be with your mother at her passing. No matter the age, it is always too soon to let our parents go. My heart aches for you. I know how […]
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Karen posted a new activity comment 1 month ago
In reply to: Mona Wolters posted an update in the group General Sometimes I think my mother doesn’t love me. I think I’m taking things to heart. She has a little dementia, and her moods change from day to day. Today she’s […] ViewHi Mona–Denise has offered some wise advice.
It’s so hard not to be hurt when a family member, especially a parent, treats you badly. Any form of dementia really drastically affects how people behave. The feelings you describe are very normal; it’s hard not to be depressed and angry; it’s hard not to feel stressed. It’s really important to…[Read more]
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Karen commented on the post, The Dilemma 2 months, 4 weeks ago
Hi EJ,
I just had to comment because I went through similar things with my brother, who was a hoarder It’s so frustrating and so scary. And it’s hard for other people to understand why it’s so nearly […]
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Karen commented on the post, Last Night’s Quiz Show Winner Was… 2 months, 4 weeks ago
So thoroughly enjoyed this! Fun clues!!
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Karen and
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Karen commented on the post, You’ll Be Okay: A Message from Bette 5 months, 2 weeks ago
Bette, Thank you so much for your beautiful message. You have been and continue to be an inspiration to me.
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Karen and
JustBrantley are now friends 6 months, 3 weeks ago
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Karen and
Teresa are now friends 7 months ago -
Karen and
destiny are now friends 7 months, 1 week ago
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Karen and
Waiting for a change are now friends 7 months, 2 weeks ago
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Karen and
Linda are now friends 7 months, 3 weeks ago
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Karen posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago
Hi Judy,
Welcome to Caregiving.com and the Caring for Parents group.
I think this site is a great place to connect with others who understand your situation. I encourage you to read and share. It’s a way to get away without having to leave your caree. It’s a place where you can vent, share feelings, and ask questions.
I have been (kind of…[Read more]
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Karen posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago
Hi,
There’s no better place to vent than here at Caregiving.com. No one “gets it” like other caregivers. It’s a good place to go to for advice, comfort and to just get things off your chest.
One of the best pieces of advice I received was that you also have to be your own caregiver during the caregiving years. And, yes, I know form…[Read more]
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Karen commented on the post, Rally 7 months, 3 weeks ago
Wow! This really hit me. Mom had so many rallies. She came back so often. At the end, she had one last rally and had a really good day.
When she died, it was so hard for me to accept that she wouldn’t just […]
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Karen commented on the post, Mixed Feelings… I Think… 7 months, 4 weeks ago
Jane–
You are such a good Mo and a great advocate for Nicole. With all that Nicole has been through and all that she still deals with, she absolutely does not need to deal with anything more.
And having a […]
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Karen commented on the post, The End 8 months ago
Jo,
I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to lose a parent, even if/when it’s expected. My thoughts are with you and your family. -
Karen commented on the post, Update on Mom 8 months ago
Hi Meryl,
I’m so sorry that you’ve been through yet another scare–and so glad to know your Mom is doing better.
The ups and downs are so hard to take emotionally. I hope for more good days for both of you.
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Karen commented on the post, Learning to Let Go…the Hard Way! 8 months ago
Hi Pegi,
Boy, can I relate! I was so obsessive for so long about my mother’s care especially. NO ONE could take care of her as well as I could.
I, too, learned the hard way, to ask for a little help. Not […]
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Karen commented on the post, How Will It End? 8 months ago
Jo,
While it may be difficult for your children to spend so much time away form them, you are always where you most need to be. Being with your father right now must be comforting to him on some level. It’s […]
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Karen commented on the post, I’m Not the Only Caregiver in This House 8 months, 2 weeks ago
Pegi–
I love this! Isn’t it wonderful that your husband takes care of you, too! He sounds very special. So are you, to recognize what he does and gives back.
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