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Long-Distance Caregiving: Tips for the Check-In Call

May 15 2013 in , by Denise

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You live in New York City; your mom lives in Florida. You talk regularly. But, after each phone conversation, you wonder: How do I really know that all is okay? Sometimes, caring conversations can be about the big issues (money, moving, a change in care needs) and sometimes it’s about the little things, like how [...]

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Lead, Follow or Get Out of the Way

Nov 5 2012 in , by Denise

On Saturday, RoaringMouse joined me for Table Talk on Your Caregiving Journey. You can listen to our show via the player below. RoaringMouse shared her perspective on life after caregiving. Her husband, Greg, died July 1. She explained that she manages her life now much as she did during caregiving. Her philosophy, Lead, Follow or [...]

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Storm Stories: Managing Sandy

Oct 29 2012 in , , by Denise

Caregiving in good weather is challenging enough. Add in bad weather, like a hurricane or a blizzard, and you can feel like a disaster waits outside your door. Feel free to keep us posted on how you’re preparing for the hurricane and blizzard in our comments section below. Let us know how you’re preparing and [...]

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When Work and Caregiving Call on the Same Line

Oct 29 2012 in , by Denise

On Saturday, Trish joined me for Table Talk on Your Caregiving Journey. Trish, who cares for her brother and works as a legal administrator, joins me monthly to talk about issues facing working family caregivers. You can listen to Saturday’s show via the player below. During our show, we talked about the importance of communication [...]

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Hang on for the Ride!!!

May 11 2012 in , by roaringmouse

Hi… I’m overwhelmed with what I have to get done and figured that this would make for a good “brain respite” break. Yes, in the middle of all that. “Garden” is a reminder to me not to get overwhelmed and step back and seek peace. Thus my “break” now. I miss all of you and [...]

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Vulnerable!

Apr 15 2012 in , by roaringmouse

Vulnerable – Feeling all alone and capable or susceptible of being exposed to a hurt, wound, sad event, etc. (My definition.) My day was really crazy yesterday. 1 a.m. was when I finally went to bed, after addressing my husband’s pain situation. Back up at 2:30 to give him medication again for pain as it [...]

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How Do You Manage Caregiving and Your Career?

Aug 27 2011 in , by Denise

The New York Times published an article this afternoon with tips on how to manage work while you’re caregiving. (You can read the article here.) The tips mentioned in the article include: using the Family and Medical Leave Act in order to create plans, manage emergencies, transition your caree into another care setting; checking with [...]

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Managing Life When Every Day Can Be Different

Jun 11 2011 in , by Denise

This morning, G-J, who cares for her husband, Steve, joined me for Table Talk on Your Caregiving Journey. You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post. We intended to talk about G-J’s plan for her summer and to take a look back at the past year for her. [...]

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You’re the Coach

May 7 2011 in , by Denise

This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Holly, who cares for her husband who has frontotemporal dementia, joined me for Table Talk. She helped to answer the questions: How much do I push my caree? How do I know how much he or she can handle? (You can listen to our show, via the player below.) [...]

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Poll: Do You Have a Caregiving Back-Up Plan?

Feb 8 2011 in , by Denise

“Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.” ~ Allen Saunders Certainly, caregiving changed your life plans. It also demands planning and scheduling. And, then, when bad weather or flu or another emergency gets in the way, it demands a Plan B (and sometimes a Plan C and D). In this [...]

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How Do You Manage Bad Weather?

Feb 1 2011 in , by Denise

I’m in Chicago, which today is in the path of a bad weather system covering 2,100 miles. Our blizzard warning goes into effect today at 3 p.m. and will last 24 hours. In normal situations, bad weather becomes an inconvenience. Add in the life storm of caregiving and bad weather can be an incredible challenge. [...]

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Recovering from SSS and Facing Our Fears

May 21 2010 in , by Denise

This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Anna Stookey joined us to talk about Self-Sufficiency Syndrome (SSS), “an inability and unwillingness to ask for help or delegate because of the belief that no one can do it as well as you can.” You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the [...]

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Budgeting for Care

May 1 2010 in , by Denise

On Friday, Sheri Samotin of LifeBridge Solutions, joined us on Your Caregiving Journey to discuss how to budget for care. You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of this post. (Did you know Your Caregiving Journey is part of iTunes? You can download our free podcasts here.) Sheri shared great [...]

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Let It Snow…

Dec 19 2009 in by Denise

Image by Oregon State University Archives via Flickr I think we’re in for it this weekend. When you’re not out shoveling, you find yourself inside staring at your four walls and your caree. Or, you may be staring at your phone, hoping your caree will be okay. We’ve got some articles to help you weather [...]

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Ask Denise: Can We Convert the Garage for Him?

Jul 5 2009 in by Denise

Dear Denise, My brother-in-law suffered a stroke. The doctor said he was bleeding into the brain. After extensive Intensive Care at a Stroke Center, he is now in Rehab. We have been told that he will be there for about 6 weeks…..he seems to be showing improvement already, but the doctor indicates he will need “Assisted Living” [...]

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Ask Denise: We Can Help, If They Would Only Let Us

Jun 4 2009 in by Denise

Dear Denise, My grandfather had two heart attacks after fives years of angina and a previous heart attack within that five year period. He is going to be having a double by-pass very soon. He and my grandmother are in their 80′s and live alone in a little two-story house. Two of my aunts live near [...]

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Seven Lifesavers for Long-Distance Caregivers

May 13 2009 in by guest

Image via Wikipedia By Sheri Samotin (Editor’s Note: On a regular basis, we invite health care professionals and family caregivers to share insights as a guest blogger on Caregiving.com. As we launch our online support group for long-distance family caregivers, we asked Sheri Samotin, a family transition coach, to share her top tips to help [...]

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Tax Time Great Time To Update/Review Paperwork

Feb 7 2009 in by Denise

It’s the time of year to be surrounded by paperwork. Since the pile of pile already takes up a chunk of your dining room table, why not review legal documents for you and your care recipient to ensure they are up-to-date. –Will: Experts recommend updating your will every three years. Consider: Are beneficiaries still living? [...]

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How Do I Train My Sister?

Jan 30 2009 in by Denise

Dear Denise, Finally, I’m going on vacation! I’ll be gone for two weeks in September. My sister will stay at the house and take care of my mom. Here’s my problem: How in the world do I tell my sister what I do every day to take care of my mom? Hello, Good for you! [...]

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Contingency Plans: Who Will Step In If You Fall Out Of Step?

Jan 25 2009 in by Denise

You become so used to handling it all, so much so that you can’t imagine not being there for your care recipient. But, there will be times when you can’t. You may have the flu, or be called out-of-town unexpectedly, or need to devote your time to another family crisis. Or, your home health aide, [...]

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