Denise on August 26th, 2010

This morning, on Your Caregiving Journey, Elizabeth Lombardo, author of A Happy You: Your Ultimate Prescription for Happiness” joined us to answer the question: How much of our happiness can we control? (You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post.) Elizabeth shared research which shows that we about [...]

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Denise on August 26th, 2010

Yesterday, during our free webinar, Lasting Caregiving: Embrace Your Limits, we changed how we look at limits. Limits don’t take away. They make the way. (Did you miss yesterday’s webinar? No worries; you can view and listen to the recording here.) So, if you attended yesterday’s webinar, I would love to know: What’s different for [...]

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Denise on August 16th, 2010

Well, I’m not sure we definitely answered that question on Your Caregiving Journey this morning. But, I think we have a much better understanding of emotional pain and how to manage its presence in our lives. You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post. We began our discussion [...]

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Denise on August 10th, 2010

We hope that our tomorrows will be bright and giving and fulfilling. Sometimes, those tomorrows, the tomorrows we hope for, can seem years away. And, that can make it hard to look forward to the true tomorrow, the day after today. In caregiving, the chance that tomorrow will bring heartache, or finality, or yet another [...]

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Denise on August 7th, 2010

This morning’s episode of Your Caregiving Journey reminded me of Donna Baldwin, one of our 1999 Caregiver of the Year award winners. In her story, Donna spoke about her new-found green thumb, grown after she began caring for her mom. I wrote: Donna Baldwin readily admits to this: Fourteen years ago, she couldn’t keep a [...]

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Denise on August 2nd, 2010

In the warm weather, it’s wonderful to feel like outside is a wonderful alternative. Often, it offers a welcome reprieve. You can go outside to take a walk, to sit in the backyard, to enjoy nature’s blooms. In a caregiving role, though, you can feel like you’re often on the outside. You may feel on [...]

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Denise on July 29th, 2010

Several months ago, I was looked at a very tall To Do list that had to be completed within a very short time period. I was going over my list with a few colleagues, who I had asked to help me make sure I had a plan in place to complete what needed to be [...]

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Denise on July 22nd, 2010

Maybe it’s something you’ve been doing for years for your caree, like transferring him or her from bed to commode or preparing a special pureed meal. But every time you face the bed or the blender, you think: I just wish this would get easier. Or, perhaps it’s a moment during the day that still [...]

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Denise on July 6th, 2010

A friend recounted the other day why she fell in love. “He made me feel safe,” she said. The relationships we love are the ones in which we feel safe, protected. We feel safe to be ourselves. We feel safe, knowing we have a partner who helps row the boat during difficult times and who [...]

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Denise on June 25th, 2010

This afternoon, on Your Caregiving Journey, Sheri Samotin of LifeBridge Solutions shared tips to help you, and your caree, manage a difficult transition. When abilities and capabilities decline, how do you manage the emotional reaction to your caree’s decline? (You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post.) We [...]

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