How Do I Manage Night-Time Care Needs?

Dear Denise, I am caring for my husband and having difficulty trying to find someone to contact in case of an emergency late at night. I manage fine during the day and get some help but last night he lost control of his bladder and soaked the bed, his clothing etc. I was unable to find who to call at two in the morning that could help me turn the mattress over. I’m a senior and have a back problem so all I...

Helping Your Care Recipient Feel Helpful

Several years ago, I worked for a social service organization in Hunterdon County, N.J. I managed several programs that assisted the county’s elderly persons as well as their family caregivers. One of the programs, Volunteer Friendly Visitors, matched volunteers with homebound seniors; the volunteers would make at least one monthly visit to the senior. I had two seniors, in particular, in great need of...