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Co-Caregiving: Recognizing the Pitfalls and Avoiding the Sinkholes

Jun 12 2013 in , by Trish

Co-caregivers need to have fun a few kisses

(This is reprinted from @Trish’s personal website www.robertssister.com) I have to break it to you: Co-Caregiving is not all roses, sunshine and success. Yep, there are bad days.  On my good days, I will break down that bad day (or days) into moments and realize we had some bad moments. Of course, who wants to [...]

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Co-Caregiving: Tips for Success

Jun 5 2013 in , by Trish

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(Reprinted from Trish’s website www.robertssister.com) Our caregiving situation is not unusual. According to a 2009 study conducted by the National Alliance for Caregiving in collaboration with AARP, approximately one-third of caregivers care for two or more people. In our own situation, I am the primary caregiver for my brother, Robert, and Richard (@kreisler) is the [...]

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When Things Are Too Much

Apr 11 2013 in by Trish

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“I was wondering if this would be too much for you.” Denise recently asked me this but she wasn’t referring to caring for Robert.  She knows Richard and I can care for Robert and that bringing him into our home was the right decision for us. She was referring to an interview she asked me to [...]

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Welcome Home, Robert

Apr 1 2013 in by Trish

No more rationing how many nights Robert can sleep over; No more arranging doctor appointments not only around my schedule, work and when Robert is sleeping over but New Home schedule; No more worry if he is wearing clean pants every day (and a dry brief) or if I have to change him before bringing [...]

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Slaying the Medication Worry

Mar 28 2013 in by Trish

Medication dispense times per day: 7 Total number of pills to give per day: 25 Medications to keep filled on time: 9 The consequences of screwing this up: severe (increased and/or prolonged seizures, physically hurt from increased falls, increased memory and balance problems). Worst case scenario: I don’t even want to think about it. My [...]

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Preparing for Move-In

Mar 21 2013 in by Trish

My checklists have checklists (and that’s on a normal day). Preparing for Robert moving in? Let’s just say my checklists are having a tough time keeping up. Preparations are well under way and tasks are being crossed off the list at pretty good clip! I started the move prep by creating a checklist (shocker). I [...]

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Universe, Are You Testing Me?

Mar 16 2013 in by Trish

On Tuesday, I announce that Robert is going to live with us starting in April. On Wednesday, the Wonderful New Home House Manager calls to tell me Robert is not feeling well and wanted to stay at New Home instead of going to Day Program.  Robert has had a cold/flu all winter and has periodically [...]

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Burying the Lead

Mar 12 2013 in by Trish

Robert has lived in New Home for two years. Before that, beginning in 2009, he lived in an assisted living facility for older adults (he had an exemption since he was under 50 years old) for two years. In the last part of 2008 and early part of 2009, Robert had a long-term stay in [...]

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The Tough Talk: End of Life

Jan 28 2013 in by Trish

Chris (aka @thpurplejacket and The Bow Tie Guy) cares for his partner, Richard, who has esophageal cancer and was given three to four months to live – 16 months ago. Chris is an inspiration to me in so many ways; he is a loving caregiver to his partner and is an avid advocate who created his [...]

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What Epilepsy Means to Me: Slideshow

Dec 19 2012 in by Trish

I know I’ve been absent – Robert was sick, I was sick, work is crazy busy . . . but on to the good news!  (Even though I wasn’t commenting as much as I would have liked, I was reading and thinking of all of you). My local paper, The Sacramento Bee, created a gallery [...]

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November: Epilepsy Awareness Month

Oct 27 2012 in by Trish

Affected by Epilepsy? I want to know your story. Everyone has a story and in honor of November Epilepsy Awareness Month, I want to help you tell it. (November is also National Family Caregivers Month and Denise has some exciting events planned). What Robert’s Sister will be doing in November is posting interviews of people who [...]

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Neurology Appointment: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

Jul 18 2012 in by Trish

The Good:  For years, Robert was treated for his epilepsy at UCSF which has a prestigious epilepsy center.  Robert tried out the Vegus Nerve Stimulator, participated in a study for the Deep Brain Stimulator study as well as underwent two brain surgeries by world-renowned surgeons.  He really has received the best care by the brightest [...]

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The Mouse Has Been Disrupting

Jun 24 2012 in , by roaringmouse

Hello!  I know it has been quite some time since you last heard from me. Too much has occurred and I had to let some things slide to keep up. I LOVE the DISRUPT T-shirt…and I’m waiting to get one along with the new book. Every time you create these things, I can take them [...]

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Shortest Post You’ll Ever See From Me

May 17 2012 in by Trish

I know I tend to ramble but this is not one of those times.  Robert is out of the hospital and I’m exhausted.  I’ll fill you in more tomorrow.  The important part is that Robert is out of the hospital and (keep your fingers crossed) infection free.  Thank you for your prayers, thoughts, well wishes [...]

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Who Knew Hospitals Had Roller Coasters?

May 16 2012 in by Trish

Let’s get this out there: I do not like roller coasters.  I will go on them to push myself outside of my comfort zone but I am terrified during the ride.  Afterwards, I may say I was glad I pushed myself but can’t actually recall if I’ve said I’ve enjoyed the experience.  (My denial defense [...]

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Robert Update

May 14 2012 in by Trish

The first thing I want to tell all of you is how much I appreciate the outpouring of support and concern from you. Believe me, it has helped me through the last few days even when I haven’t been able to post here or keep up with you and your carees. I will catch up – promise. [...]

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Total Extremes

May 11 2012 in by Trish

I wanted to write a quick update and promise to update you more later. Yesterday, Robert and I were interviewed for a nationally-aired, AARP-produced-for-PBS TV program “Inside E Street.” Woohoo! It was exciting and nervewracking and I joked with Robert that he was a TV star. He loved it. During the interview and time with [...]

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Priorities: Patient or Paperwork?

Apr 19 2012 in by Trish

When I took Robert to a walk-in clinic on Monday, I knew it wouldn’t sit well with his Care Facility (otherwise known as “New Home”). It had to be done, though. Robert had a cough for several weeks which I asked to have checked out several times but the doctor Robert had seen at the [...]

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Dreaming Big, Just for Fun . . .

Mar 30 2012 in by Trish

What would you do with $640 million?  At 1 in 175.7 million, the odds of winning the lottery are ridiculously astronomical.  (By comparison, the Institute of Medicine of the National Academies released their long-awaited “Epilepsy Across the Spectrum” report to the nation and estimates “approximately 1 in 26 people will develop epilepsy at some point [...]

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Why I’m Wearing Purple on March 26

Mar 25 2012 in by Trish

March 26 is the Global Day of Epilepsy Awareness (otherwise known as “Purple Day” thanks to the Purple Day Organization). Purple Day is about spreading awareness and education about epilepsy which, hopefully, leads to more research so this disorder can be cured. Yes, cured.  The goal is to stop epilepsy in its tracks. On Monday, [...]

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Finding Comfort Even on the Bad Days

Mar 16 2012 in by Trish

I don’t like hearing that Robert got in trouble (or is causing trouble) at his New Home or at Day Program. My first thought is “oh, crap, he’s going to get kicked out” which is a leftover reaction from when his previous care facility used an incident to try to evict him. (Never mind that [...]

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Epilepsy Questions Answered (Part Two)

Mar 6 2012 in by Trish

Robert enjoyed being interviewed this past weekend. He answered my questions while snacking on a few cookies and was happy people wanted to learn about his seizures and epilepsy. He was even happier when I let him have extra cookies since we had a lot of questions to answer! Because there were so many great [...]

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