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Tips for Avoiding the Family Feud

May 24 2013 in by Denise

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How do you avoid a family feud during caregiving, an experience that seems to bring out the worst in the family? The National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers (NAPGCM) asked its members–professionals who work with older people, people with disabilities and families who need assistance with caregiving issues–that very question (How do you avoid [...]

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The Test

May 23 2013 in , by G-J

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Tomorrow I’m having a colonoscopy. From here on out we’re referring to it as The Test because c-o-l-o-n-o-s-c-o-p-y is too much to type. This has been scheduled since early last month. I let Steve and our son know and had already arranged for a friend to take me for the appointment. She’s not a morning [...]

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Tell Us: How Do You Answer Questions about Your Caree’s Health?

May 15 2013 in by Denise

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In yesterday’s edition of Chicago Tribune, Miss Manners answered a caregiving question. Which makes me wonder how you would answer the same question. Here’s the question: Dear Miss Manners, My husband has a chronic, debilitating illness. Frequently I field phone calls from his family or queries from friends I run into, and I don’t seem [...]

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Caregiving Bloopers Part 1: Going Out to Dinner, It’s an Adventure

Apr 21 2013 in by MissAngie

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If you are caring for a parent, child, grandparent, partner or any other person that is lucky enough to have you in their life this post is for you. I bet you have had moments that were stressful but later on you just had to laugh about it. As a mom, wife, caregiver to Mom [...]

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Activities To Help Your Children And Your Caree Interact With Each Other

Feb 26 2013 in by G-J

Quick!  What do these things have in common: photos, music, and a video camera? They are all things that can be used to encourage positive interactions between your children and your caree. These suggestions can be used by anyone, not just a child and caree. Even if you don’t have children, you might enjoy them! [...]

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The Pit of My Stomach

Feb 20 2013 in by G-J

There is so much more to caregiving than what meets the eye. To begin, a family member or friend you love enough to help and care for has a health problem that necessitates your assistance. This doesn’t go away. Despite everything else going on in your life, the ill health of someone you dearly love [...]

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A Glimpse of the Future

Jan 21 2013 in by G-J

Our family consists of me, my husband who has Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI), and our son who is a 16-year-old high school junior, plus our cat.  I have been a stay-at-home mom since our son was born.  Actually, I don’t know any stay-at-home mom who does.  The moms I know who do not work outside [...]

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Could I Be a Family Care Manager?

Jan 19 2013 in by Jo

I read and listened with interest the posts and discussion on the concept of the Family Care Manager by @Denise and @Trish. In answer to the question, my first reaction was “No!” I wouldn’t volunteer for a position like this… but then I don’t have to, I am already filling such a role. I was [...]

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Unexpected Gifts

Jan 1 2013 in by G-J

Sometimes we are handed unexpected gifts and if we aren’t observant, we miss them.  Earlier this month, Steve had an appointment with his neurologist.  His goal was to get 100% on his tests.  There really isn’t such a thing as 100% on the tests, but it was a good goal. The next day, Steve was [...]

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Merry Christmas, Caregiving.com

Dec 19 2012 in by Jo

Knowing me I’ll be moving in thousand different directions over the next few days, not to mention the world is scheduled to end anyway so I figured I’d better wish my caregiving.com family an early holiday greeting now, at 3:00 am while I was thinking of it. The picture by the way is of the [...]

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Looking Forward to Sleeping Together Each Night

Dec 18 2012 in by G-J

I will admit, I look forward to going to sleep at night, together with my husband.  I am usually the last one up in the house, not going to bed until our son is tucked in for the night.  When he has a late night with homework, I do, too.  Usually a late night is [...]

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Perfect Imperfection

Dec 14 2012 in by G-J

I’m so sorry I’m late! I’ve been trying to get to the party all week. I brought cookies!  We have Spritz butter trees, peanut butter balls and cream cheese wreaths.  I hope you enjoy them. But you see, there are seven more types of cookies I haven’t made.  Yes, I’ve made two batches of trees, [...]

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Continuing Traditions

Nov 27 2012 in by G-J

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When I called in to one of the caregiving shows and spoke to Denise and Bette about the holidays, I said that we have turkey plates we always use on Thanksgiving. Denise asked me to blog about our tradition. I think these plates have been in our family for over 40 years.  As I recall,  [...]

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Giving Thanks in 2012

Nov 18 2012 in by Jo

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“Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks…”   [1 Thess 5:16-18a] A year ago I wrote a post titled “Giving Thanks” where I listed some of the Caregiving related items I was thankful for.  As the holiday rolled around again I contemplated what such a list would say this time around: I am thankful [...]

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Walk to End Alzheimer’s

Oct 27 2012 in by G-J

Today, Steve and I participated in the Walk to End Alzheimer’s.  Our team, “Walk for the Health of It!” had four members who raised money and walked.  As a team we have currently raised $2,700 and are in fifth place for fundraising.  Pretty cool! I was asked if I would speak at the opening ceremony.  [...]

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Fresh Starts

Sep 13 2012 in by G-J

The new year started on August 27th. No, I’m not crazy. To me the new year starts on the first day of school, and both Steve and our son started school that day. The start of the school year is a time of change for all of us. It includes new school supplies and new [...]

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Hiccoughs

Sep 11 2012 in by G-J

“What did everyone think of our last meeting?” the discussion moderator asked. “Brutal” was my succinct answer. “Brutal? Why?” “Because it was very difficult to sit here and listen to Steve say that he has to battle depression on a daily basis when it was obviously painful for him to say that.” “Well, I did [...]

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Gasp!

Aug 30 2012 in by G-J

I made a mistake this summer.  In an e-mail, someone asked me what I would do when my son returned to school now that I no longer had a couple of my volunteer responsibilities.  My mistake was that I said I didn’t know what I’d be doing but I was sure something would come up.  [...]

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Familiar Routines

Aug 25 2012 in , , by Jo

After a summer like this one, thinking of getting a bumper sticker on my car, “my other vehicle is an ambulance” I’ve been down this road before. Near the beginning of the shift you check your loved one, you check in with the nurses, hear the report from the previous shift, get the results of [...]

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73 Days

Jul 27 2012 in by Trish

“Seventy-three days per calendar year for developmentally disabled recipients” are what Robert gets when he lives in an Intermediate Care Facility for the Disabled (aka, New Home) in California. Robert’s home is reimbursed through the state Medicaid program (Medi-Cal) and they will lose funding for the days he is not at the home if he [...]

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Off to Grandma’s We Go!

Jul 16 2012 in by Trish

My Grandmother has always looked the same to me.  A very petite, Polish woman with permed hair of varying shades of red or brunette, cigarette dangling from her mouth and a scowl on her face. Even when she’s smiling. The only time I saw her age was throughout Mom’s cancer.  Grandma didn’t leave Mom’s side [...]

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Everyone Loves a Party!

Jun 12 2012 in by Trish

Hospitals, pneumonia and sepsis are behind us. This past weekend was all about a party! My hubby, Richard, and I have two daughters (his and hers) who are two months apart. Step-sisters so close in age?  Yikes! Sounds like a disaster in the making! It hasn’t been – not even close. They don’t just tolerate [...]

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