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Graceldoor and the Three Bedrooms: Someone’s Been Sleeping in My Bed

May 31 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As a daughter of a mom with dementia the day-to-day routines for my mom can be a challenge. Things like finding the right bedroom or knowing that we have two bathrooms in the house. My husband Shon and I are big Lord Of The Rings fans. Most of the characters have names like Isildor or [...]

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Full Moon

May 29 2013 in , by G-J

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It was obvious that there was a full moon recently.  There has been a slight change in things, but I don’t know if it’s temporary or permanent, which adds to the challenge. Saturday morning the three of us were talking. Our son said something and repeated it and Steve still didn’t seem to hear it [...]

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Caregiver Bloopers: Mom’s Appointments, Vicodin, Viagra and Volkswagens

May 29 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As a family caregiver you probably spend more time at your caree’s hospital than they do. You are also wondering why a image of Julio Iglesias is on this post. Just keep reading. I hope this brightens your day and makes you laugh. You are the one that has to go get medications when they [...]

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The Test

May 23 2013 in , by G-J

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Tomorrow I’m having a colonoscopy. From here on out we’re referring to it as The Test because c-o-l-o-n-o-s-c-o-p-y is too much to type. This has been scheduled since early last month. I let Steve and our son know and had already arranged for a friend to take me for the appointment. She’s not a morning [...]

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Grandma’s Last Scripture

Apr 29 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As many of you know, I care for my 85-year-old mom, Grace. She suffers from dementia. Grace also cared for her mother, Ruth, who died thirteen years ago at the age of 94. My mom suffered a stroke while my grandmother was in hospice. The stress on me during that time was great. When I [...]

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Trade-Offs

Apr 22 2013 in by G-J

Life is full of trade-offs.  If you spend your money on a new car, you may not be able to take a vacation, for example. I wish the decisions in caregiving were that easy! Steve takes several medications, one of which is through a patch. He has been on a particular dose of the patch [...]

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Tell Us: What Left You Speechless?

Apr 17 2013 in , by Denise

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Last night Your Caregiving Journey, we shares stories of about situations that left us speechless. You can listen to our show via the player, below. An arrogant nurse left @Trish speechless. An unshoveled driveway still causes my mouth to go dry. And, for @jbones1961, a comment from a friend of Nicole’s still causes steam out [...]

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The Pit of My Stomach

Feb 20 2013 in by G-J

There is so much more to caregiving than what meets the eye. To begin, a family member or friend you love enough to help and care for has a health problem that necessitates your assistance. This doesn’t go away. Despite everything else going on in your life, the ill health of someone you dearly love [...]

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How Do You Manage Caregiving’s Slooooow Motion?

Jan 20 2013 in by Denise

Yesterday, on Your Caregiving Journey, Holly, who cares for her husband, joined me for our monthly chat on Table Talk. You can listen to our show via the player below. Holly updated us on Dave’s condition; she shared a few tough moments during the holidays and Dave’s need for more help. She also told us [...]

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To Everything Turn, Turn, Turn: The Darker Side of My Caregiving Journey

Jan 4 2013 in by Bob

To everything there is a season. Twists and turns. Times when the bond between me and my loved one (my caree/wife) is deep and other times when it is constricted and vapid. Such has been the recent case. However, it’s been a pattern for a long time, exacerbated dramatically when I had no choice but to have her [...]

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Fighting the Feeling You’ll Be Left Behind

Nov 26 2012 in , by Denise

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A few weeks ago, as I was leaving the house to take a walk, my mom updated me on a younger relative’s dating life. Isn’t it wonderful, my mom said. She’s going on another date. Now this younger relative is a beautiful young woman, inside and out, and deserves all the good that comes her [...]

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Webinar Follow-Up: What Will You Change This Holiday Season?

Nov 1 2012 in , , by Denise

Thanks to all who joined me yesterday for our monthly webinar, Holiday Hold-Up, Strategies to Survive the Holidays. During the 40-minute webinar, I helped you create a plan to minimize what you hate about the holidays and maximize what you love. (Miss it? No worries–you can enjoy the archive here.) So, I’d love to know: [...]

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How Much Do You Do?

Oct 24 2012 in , by Denise

On Monday morning, Anna Stookey joined me to discuss this question: How much do I do for my caree? You can listen to our show via the player below. It’s a tough question to answer. When you see your caree struggle, the temptation is to step in and help. But, is that the right step [...]

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The Clutter Struggle

Oct 4 2012 in , by Denise

This morning, Ellen Rogin, our wealthness expert, joined me on Your Caregiving Journey to dissect clutter–what it is and why it hurts us. You can listen to our show via the player below. We spoke about physical clutter (paper and stuff) and our mental clutter (our thoughts and our beliefs). I shared my recent effort [...]

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Rally

Sep 25 2012 in , by Denise

At the end of your caregiving experience, you’ll find yourself wishing for a rally, hoping your caree can turn another corner, regain that lost strength, recover to where she was. You’ve had so many rallies in the past, it can be hard to believe one more rally just won’t come. And, when that rally doesn’t [...]

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Why I Don’t Tell

Sep 4 2012 in by G-J

I have learned that people with anything that falls under the dementia umbrella travel in pairs.  It is always the caregiver and the caree, so when I refer to being in a group of people, half of them are caregivers and half of them are carees. Whenever we are in a group of people with [...]

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The Weight of the Matter

Aug 9 2012 in , by Chris

Pictures tell a thousand words. Ten years ago, I weighed in at 285 lbs. When this picture was taken in January of 2002, I took a very close look in the mirror as I did not recognize the person in this photo. It was time to do some personal assessment.  Everything had become an effort. I did [...]

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Tell Us: What’s the Worst Caregiving Advice You’ve Received?

Jun 22 2012 in , by Denise

I’m always amazed at the unsolicited advice others will offer me. I’m sure you can relate. So, I’m wondering: What’s the worst caregiving advice you’ve received? It could be a suggestion from a health care professional or a friend or even a complete stranger. It was probably well-meaning but yet it made you think: “Are [...]

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Another Week And Wait

Jun 4 2012 in , by carlaschuchman

Finally, the new week is here. I am feeling worried, stressed, and most of the weekend I have spent doing…nothing. Unless I was helping Smokey. My work has slowed down and that stresses me because when it does, I fall behind on bills. Here it is the first of the month and I can’t pay [...]

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Something Is Always Changing

May 29 2012 in , by carlaschuchman

Hello Everyone, It is weeks between times I come and read, listen, comment, and post. Something is always changing. Mema, my mother-in-law, is off for her month away with my dear friends who have adopted her and take her twice a year. Gives us a little break and she really, really enjoys it. Work has [...]

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What’s Your Bear?

Apr 22 2012 in , by Denise

Yesterday, Holly, who cares for her husband, Dave, joined me for Table Talk on Your Caregiving Journey. We talked about how to feel better on a bad day. You can listen to our show via the player below. I asked Holly to tell us about her bad days. In turns out, her recent bad days [...]

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You Can’t Be Your Caree’s Source of Happiness

Apr 3 2012 in , by Denise

Tonight, our call-in show aired; we talked about this question: What do you need a break from? You can listen to our show via the player below. (The show went really long because I couldn’t stop talking tonight. Yikes!) Jan (read her blog here) called in tonight and shared that she would like a break [...]

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