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Grandma’s Last Scripture

Apr 29 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As many of you know, I care for my 85-year-old mom, Grace. She suffers from dementia. Grace also cared for her mother, Ruth, who died thirteen years ago at the age of 94. My mom suffered a stroke while my grandmother was in hospice. The stress on me during that time was great. When I [...]

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End Game: The Fast and the Slow

Sep 16 2012 in , , by Jo

“He is near the end.” That’s the expression I’ve used frequently this weekend in answer to inquires of how Dad is doing. I don’t like saying it but it’s true. The pace of nearly everything seems to be speeding up. I find myself racing around getting chores done, racing back and forth between the hospital, [...]

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How Will It End?

Sep 13 2012 in , , by Jo

Today is my Dad’s 91st birthday. Today I asked hospice to begin providing care to my father. For the past few days, since we rushed him to the ER, I’ve pondered this question. My dad remains hospitalized. He’s out of the ER and moved to a private room but his vitals are not good. They [...]

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I’m Ready. Will You Help Me?

Sep 20 2011 in , by Denise

On Friday morning, Viki Kind, author of The Caregivers Path to Compassionate Decision Making, joined me on Your Caregiving Journey. You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post. Our show focused on how to handle a really tough situation: Your caree, who is not cognitively impaired, makes a [...]

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Hospice vs Traditional Medicine

Jul 6 2011 in , , , , by Jo

Reading Shandi’s posts I couldn’t help but notice this one particular line: “Hospice amazing, the medical support I’ve looked for all year” I’ve not experienced hospice directly but the overwhelming majority of accounts that I read and hear say the same thing.  It begs the question, Why? Is it that with hospice finally comes a much longed for focus [...]

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Resources for Life’s End

Jul 5 2011 in by Denise

As we support The Unit Known as Shandi and her mom, I thought it would be helpful to share resources we have on the site. You can find articles relating to end-of-life care, including making the feeding tube decision, here: www.caregiving.com/tag/end-of-life/ And, one of the articles includes a talk show I did about 18 months [...]

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What Will You Always Keep?

Mar 6 2011 in , by Denise

Yesterday, on Your Caregiving Journey, Judith joined me talk about her love story with Nelson and the difficult news they heard last week. You can listen to our show via the player below. During our discussion, Judith shared how she stays healthy. She also said she knows that she may have to adjust some the [...]

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Ask the Nurse: Should My Mom Get a Feeding Tube?

Sep 24 2010 in , by Denise

Yesterday afternoon, on Your Caregiving Journey, Jeannie Keenan of My Health Care Manager, joined us to answer your questions. (You can listen to our show via the player at the bottom of the post.) We had four questions, but spent our time tackling a tough one: I care for my mom, who has advanced dementia. [...]

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Where Matters, Too, When We Die

Sep 15 2010 in , by Denise

I think we all hope that we die when we’ve completed our Bucket List, so to speak. That we end just as our work here ends. An article in USA Today yesterday also says that it matters where we die. According to the article, “cancer patients who died in a hospital or intensive care unit [...]

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Help a Hospice Nurse: What Product Do You Use for Personal Care?

Sep 10 2010 in , by Denise

I received the following email this morning from a hospice nurse, who requested your help: I am trying to find out if there is a product out there to help caregivers pull a patient up in the bed, or turn them from side to side, or change a Depends when the patient can’t help and [...]

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When Dying to Live Makes Dying Horrible

Aug 3 2010 in by Denise

The New Yorker has an incredible article on its website today: Letting Go by Atul Gawande. Gawande tackles the question: What should medicine do when it can’t save your life? The answer lies in a heartbreaking story Gawande tells of a young woman diagnosed with advanced lung cancer while 39 weeks pregnant. Her story illustrates [...]

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An Unchanging Message

Jun 24 2010 in by Derek

It’s been a week now since my Mom’s primary care physician broke the news to Mom that she’s at the end of her 15 year fight; the last 8 of which have been full-court-press. Being the skeptic that I am, I escalated the issue to her specialist at the transplant institute. I was able to [...]

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Decisions from the Head and Heart

Jun 21 2010 in , by Denise

This morning in Your Caregiving Journey, Viki Kind joined us to discuss her new book, “The Caregiver’s Path to Compassionate Decision Making.” You can listen to our discussion via the player at the bottom of this post. Viki and I spoke about the five core questions she suggests you ask yourself as you determine how [...]

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Harsh Realities

Jun 20 2010 in by Derek

Just having the conversation, however, was enough to shake us both off of our foundations, and has continued to do so at both predictable and unpredictable times throughout the weekend.

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Unpleasant Conversations…Hospice and Palliative Care

Feb 12 2010 in by Miss R

I’m sure this has been discussed  on this site before, but it has happened again over in my neck of the woods. Today was interesting. For starters, I pulled a back muscle in the morning while doing a light workout–in an attempt to be “healthier” and to “take care of myself.” Sigh. Also, my Gram’s [...]

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Making the Most of End-of-Life

Jan 7 2010 in , by Denise

This morning, Dr. Daniel Maison, Vice President for Medical Services and Chief Medical Officer at Treasure Coast Hospice, Stuart, Fla., joined us for a discussion about end-of-life decisions on Your Caregiving Journey. (Dr. Maison is also Physician Section Leader for National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization‘s National Council of Hospice and Palliative Professionals and Clinical [...]

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What If… Decisions Near Life’s End

Aug 30 2009 in by Denise

(Editor’s Note: Over the past few days, we’ve been sharing articles to help you with difficult decisions. The Hospice Institute of the Florida Suncoast shared the following article, courtesy of Caregiving at Life’s End: The National Train the Trainer Program, to help you make end-of-life decisions.) Throughout the experience of caregiving you may be faced [...]

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Ahhh…. ARGH! From Blueberry Waffles to a Physician’s Nonsense

Aug 15 2009 in by Denise

I sat down to the breakfast table this morning with two waffles topped with butter, blueberries and syrup. The cranberry juice was straight-out-of-the-fridge cold. Ahhh… Life is good. I opened the front section of the Chicago Tribune, perusing page-by-page until I arrived to the Letters to the Editor section. Hmm… The debate over end-of-life discussions [...]

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