• I am responsible for my own happiness. I am responsible for providing my care recipient with a safe environment and with appropriate care. I cannot make my care recipient happy—that’s his or her own responsibility.

• I am doing my best—which is the best I can do.

• I have the right to hopes and dreams. And, I have the right to regularly pursue these hopes and dreams.

• Each day brings different priorities. Sometimes, my care recipient takes priority. Sometimes, my job. Sometimes, my spouse. Sometimes, other family members and friends. And, sometimes, me.

• And, for when you take your much-deserved mini-vacation, tell your care recipient: I love you. I’ll miss you. I’ll be back in five days.

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