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How Do You Talk to Your Kids About End of Life?

Jun 1 2013 in by Denise

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This morning, Janice, who cares for her mom while raising her two kids, joined me for Table Talk on Your Caregiving Journey. You can listen to our show via the player below. Janice shared her dad’s last months with us and how she spoke to her children about his decline and his death. She was [...]

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Graceldoor and the Three Bedrooms: Someone’s Been Sleeping in My Bed

May 31 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As a daughter of a mom with dementia the day-to-day routines for my mom can be a challenge. Things like finding the right bedroom or knowing that we have two bathrooms in the house. My husband Shon and I are big Lord Of The Rings fans. Most of the characters have names like Isildor or [...]

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Caregiver Bloopers: Mom’s Appointments, Vicodin, Viagra and Volkswagens

May 29 2013 in , by MissAngie

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As a family caregiver you probably spend more time at your caree’s hospital than they do. You are also wondering why a image of Julio Iglesias is on this post. Just keep reading. I hope this brightens your day and makes you laugh. You are the one that has to go get medications when they [...]

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The Test

May 23 2013 in , by G-J

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Tomorrow I’m having a colonoscopy. From here on out we’re referring to it as The Test because c-o-l-o-n-o-s-c-o-p-y is too much to type. This has been scheduled since early last month. I let Steve and our son know and had already arranged for a friend to take me for the appointment. She’s not a morning [...]

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Promotion to Potted Plant

May 20 2013 in , by Jo

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One of the realities of dementia is the loss of language.  It’s clear my mom recognizes that there is a connection between her and I but she gets very creative in describing what that connection is.  She has at times identified me as either her father or her husband although her most common descriptor of [...]

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Get Help So You Don’t Miss Your Life

Apr 29 2013 in by Denise

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This afternoon on Your Caregiving Journey, @angelaholmes (Angela) joined me to share her caregiving story. You can listen to our show via the player, below. For Angela, caregiving began at age four, when she helped her grandfather. She continued to help throughout high school, visiting her uncle, who had muscular dystrophy, until his death. She [...]

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Trade-Offs

Apr 22 2013 in by G-J

Life is full of trade-offs.  If you spend your money on a new car, you may not be able to take a vacation, for example. I wish the decisions in caregiving were that easy! Steve takes several medications, one of which is through a patch. He has been on a particular dose of the patch [...]

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Recovery

Apr 3 2013 in by Jo

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I visited Mom again today.  I’m happy to report that I’ve been restored to the family tree, albeit in the position of brother again.  Still feels good to be back in the fold.  Mom and I laughed and just hung out together.  She of course had no memory of the day before, that is the [...]

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Spring Break: Pressing On

Apr 2 2013 in by Jo

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It is spring break here in my community and in honor of that, I’ve take some time off from my regular paid vocation.  The weather in our part of the county is mild, especially compared to the North and Midwest.  The only thing falling in our air is pollen. Mind you it’s not exactly a [...]

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How Do You Help Your Children Tell Their Caregiving Story?

Mar 11 2013 in by Denise

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Today, on Your Caregiving Journey, @G-J joined me for our monthly Sandwich Shop show to discuss issues for those raising children as they care for family members. You can listen to our show via the player, below. During our show, we talked about children’s need for comfort and routine. A routine–like dinner at night with [...]

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Caregiving Oscars

Feb 24 2013 in by Jo

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In honor of the 85th Academy Awards broadcasting tonight, I decided to come up with some awards of my own. The Oscars of Caregiving. There are many categories, so many great winners anticipated… and don’t the nominees all look lovely in their evening finest as they walk the purple carpet. Best Director, Producer, Writer: @Denise. [...]

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Tell Us: What’s Your One-Word Instruction?

Feb 22 2013 in by Denise

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Yesterday, @ejourneys (EJ) wrote in our Community Caregiving Journal about her fantasy: Receiving instructions before arriving here on Earth. Wouldn’t that be awesome! Instructions! Our instructions would guide our way, calm our fears, answer our questions. With instructions, we could avoid the late night sessions that involve wringing hands and racing hearts. With instructions, we [...]

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The Pit of My Stomach

Feb 20 2013 in by G-J

There is so much more to caregiving than what meets the eye. To begin, a family member or friend you love enough to help and care for has a health problem that necessitates your assistance. This doesn’t go away. Despite everything else going on in your life, the ill health of someone you dearly love [...]

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Warning Order

Jan 26 2013 in by Jo

“A preliminary notice of an order or action which is to follow” A Warning Order usually does not involve the commitment of resources or forces. It is intended to gain your attention, to reorient you toward a potential future task. During my military career I received many Warning Orders, more than a few Prepare to [...]

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A Glimpse of the Future

Jan 21 2013 in by G-J

Our family consists of me, my husband who has Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI), and our son who is a 16-year-old high school junior, plus our cat.  I have been a stay-at-home mom since our son was born.  Actually, I don’t know any stay-at-home mom who does.  The moms I know who do not work outside [...]

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Could I Be a Family Care Manager?

Jan 19 2013 in by Jo

I read and listened with interest the posts and discussion on the concept of the Family Care Manager by @Denise and @Trish. In answer to the question, my first reaction was “No!” I wouldn’t volunteer for a position like this… but then I don’t have to, I am already filling such a role. I was [...]

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No Longer on the Tree

Dec 30 2012 in by Jo

I’ve often described my Mom’s concept of who I was by using the family tree. Although I was no longer a close branch, no longer her son, I was at least a brother or uncle. I took comfort knowing that while I had slid down the trunk of our family tree I was at least [...]

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Merry Christmas, Caregiving.com

Dec 19 2012 in by Jo

Knowing me I’ll be moving in thousand different directions over the next few days, not to mention the world is scheduled to end anyway so I figured I’d better wish my caregiving.com family an early holiday greeting now, at 3:00 am while I was thinking of it. The picture by the way is of the [...]

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The More Open You Are, The More You Help Others

Nov 24 2012 in by Denise

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L’Tanya, who joined me today for Table Talk, shared the above insight as she spoke about writing on her blog, Caring from the Middle. You can listen to our show via the player, below. L’Tanya cares for her mom as she and her husband raise two sons. They moved in with her mother two years [...]

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Giving Thanks in 2012

Nov 18 2012 in by Jo

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“Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks…”   [1 Thess 5:16-18a] A year ago I wrote a post titled “Giving Thanks” where I listed some of the Caregiving related items I was thankful for.  As the holiday rolled around again I contemplated what such a list would say this time around: I am thankful [...]

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Bette’s New Book: Come Visit Me

Oct 29 2012 in by Denise

This afternoon, Bette and her husband, Greg, joined me on Your Caregiving Journey to talk about their just-published children’s book, Come Visit Me. You can listen to our interview via the player below. Bette, who began caring for her mother when her youngest was nine months old, based Come Visit Me on her family’s story. [...]

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Recharging the Batteries, Bit by Bit

Oct 29 2012 in , , by Jo

Since my Dad’s death I’ve taken a deliberately lower profile across all social and electronic media. A combination of grief, depression and simple emotional exhaustion made it prudent to do so. I’ve pulled up and scanned Caregiving.com from time to time, been deeply touched by so many of your posts, but simply didn’t have the [...]

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