You plow through the days, doing your best to stay positive, strong, smiling.
But, some days, well, you just find yourself wishing for a pink slip. If only you could just walk away from your caregiving role, you think, life would be so much better. And, worse, the wish to walk weighs heavily on your heart. [...]
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Results of a new study say that your care recipient prefers you as the caregiver over a trained professional. Your care recipient is happiest when a family member provides care.
But, you already know that. You know that because of the resistance you receive when you try to bring in professional help.
This study was interesting to [...]
On Thursday, I gave an eldercare presentation to a group of employees at a large corporation based here in Chicago.
At the end of the presentation, an attendee asked:
“What do I do about my mom? She insists on going to the doctor. A few years ago, she was seeing 24 doctors who all prescribed medications. I [...]
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Dear Denise,
I came across your website looking for some help for my mother-in-law’s niece, Alice.
Alice’s mother, 79, died on May 30, 2009. Now Alice must care for her 85-year-old father. He is very difficult and stubborn and physically hard to handle. He won’t go to the doctor because he says Alice wants the doctor to [...]
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You count to 10. You pray. You say any and all affirmations those 14 books you’ve bought tell you will work.
But, nothing’s working. You and your care recipient are at odds. And, the odd-makers seem to be betting against you. Caregiving is getting the best of you.
It might be time to look for more help [...]
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When I first started writing about caregiving, I had worked with family caregivers in home health care settings (linking family caregivers to respite services) and in nursing homes (helping them admit [...]
Dear Denise,
I believe divine guidance led me to your website. I plan to register for the course. My frustration is that I cannot get my mother on a schedule in order to take her medications.
She wants to sleep until noon and then be awake all night. She is suffering from post herpetic neuralgia since march and [...]
You’ve finally decided the time has come: You need help in your caregiving role; you’d like to hire a home health aide to help with your care recipient’s personal care. With your job, your kids, your spouse and your other commitments, you’ve discovered it’s just impossible to do it all yourself. Amazingly, it’s a relief [...]
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