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The Test

May 23 2013 in , by G-J

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Tomorrow I’m having a colonoscopy. From here on out we’re referring to it as The Test because c-o-l-o-n-o-s-c-o-p-y is too much to type. This has been scheduled since early last month. I let Steve and our son know and had already arranged for a friend to take me for the appointment. She’s not a morning [...]

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Trade-Offs

Apr 22 2013 in by G-J

Life is full of trade-offs.  If you spend your money on a new car, you may not be able to take a vacation, for example. I wish the decisions in caregiving were that easy! Steve takes several medications, one of which is through a patch. He has been on a particular dose of the patch [...]

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The Pit of My Stomach

Feb 20 2013 in by G-J

There is so much more to caregiving than what meets the eye. To begin, a family member or friend you love enough to help and care for has a health problem that necessitates your assistance. This doesn’t go away. Despite everything else going on in your life, the ill health of someone you dearly love [...]

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Moving from Worry and Guilt to Help

Feb 2 2013 in by Denise

This morning, on Your Caregiving Journey, Janice, who cares for her mom, joined me for Table Talk. You can listen to our show via the player below. Janice is a single mom to two teenagers who operates her own business, Janice Goldsborough Consulting, and cares for her mom. I met Janice in Winnipeg last week; [...]

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In Six Words, What’s a Caregiving Worry?

Jan 31 2013 in by Denise

Before caregiving, you thought you had worries. Then caregiving comes and you think, “Why in the world did I waste my time worrying about such small stuff?” The worries in caregiving can stop your heart and leave your breath-less. They can keep you up at night and take up time during your day. And, sometimes, you [...]

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A Glimpse of the Future

Jan 21 2013 in by G-J

Our family consists of me, my husband who has Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI), and our son who is a 16-year-old high school junior, plus our cat.  I have been a stay-at-home mom since our son was born.  Actually, I don’t know any stay-at-home mom who does.  The moms I know who do not work outside [...]

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Fighting the Feeling You’ll Be Left Behind

Nov 26 2012 in , by Denise

If I'm on life's sidelines, maybe it's not so bad if I can get a seat on this bench.

A few weeks ago, as I was leaving the house to take a walk, my mom updated me on a younger relative’s dating life. Isn’t it wonderful, my mom said. She’s going on another date. Now this younger relative is a beautiful young woman, inside and out, and deserves all the good that comes her [...]

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Storm Stories: Managing Sandy

Oct 29 2012 in , , by Denise

Caregiving in good weather is challenging enough. Add in bad weather, like a hurricane or a blizzard, and you can feel like a disaster waits outside your door. Feel free to keep us posted on how you’re preparing for the hurricane and blizzard in our comments section below. Let us know how you’re preparing and [...]

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Another Week And Wait

Jun 4 2012 in , by carlaschuchman

Finally, the new week is here. I am feeling worried, stressed, and most of the weekend I have spent doing…nothing. Unless I was helping Smokey. My work has slowed down and that stresses me because when it does, I fall behind on bills. Here it is the first of the month and I can’t pay [...]

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Something Is Always Changing

May 29 2012 in , by carlaschuchman

Hello Everyone, It is weeks between times I come and read, listen, comment, and post. Something is always changing. Mema, my mother-in-law, is off for her month away with my dear friends who have adopted her and take her twice a year. Gives us a little break and she really, really enjoys it. Work has [...]

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Webinar Follow-Up: What Answer Did You Hear?

Apr 26 2012 in , by Denise

Thanks to all who joined me yesterday for our monthly webinar, Listening for Your Answers. During the 35-minute webinar, I helped you find the answers to the questions that plague. (Miss it? No worries–you can enjoy the archive here.) So, I’d love to know: What answer did you hear? Please share in our comments section [...]

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Handling Stress

Sep 23 2011 in , , by Jo

We all know how to handle stress: – eat, but not too much – sleep – exercise – follow a routine but be flexible – lean on others – pray – use the right tool for the problem (ok you might not know this one but it fits… trust me) – eat some chocolate I could’ve of used all [...]

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A Bad Day? Or, a Decline?

Sep 7 2011 in , by Denise

This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Dr. Benjamin Mast joined me a for a terrific discussion. Dr. Mast is an Associate Professor and Vice Chair in the Department of Psychological & Brain Sciences and Associate Clinical Professor in Geriatric Medicine at the University of Louisville (Kentucky). You can listen to our show via the player [...]

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Managing Financial Angst

Aug 11 2011 in , by Denise

The markets go up and down and so does your stomach. You worry about your investments, your caree’s and then you worry about what makes sense for your investments. How do you manage your financial angst during turbulent times? This morning, on Your Caregiving Journey, Ellen Rogin, joined me to share suggestions on managing financial [...]

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Tell Us: What Do You Take Too Seriously?

Aug 11 2011 in , by Denise

Heather begins her day the same way: Up at 5:30 a.m., shower, four bites of a granola bar, hair in a headband. Then, she dons the gloves, carefully and steadfastly placing each finger into the latex glove. She’s ready for the part of the day she dreads. She wakes her mom and begins the morning [...]

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Tell Us: What Do You Want?

May 10 2011 in , by Denise

Last night, I attended a workshop led by Dr. Ann Clancy. During her presentation, Ann shared her definition of worry. Worry, she said, is the habit of focusing on what you don’t want. And, then, the light went on for me. Of course, we worry because we think that what we don’t want to happen [...]

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Tell Us: What Makes You Nervous?

Apr 8 2011 in , by Denise

My post earlier this week about nerves struck a nerve with me. And, then after our talk show on worrying with Karol Ward, I really started thinking about nerves. Sometimes, in caregiving, you may fee like you wear kid gloves, walk on egg shells, tip-toe on a tight rope. And, at times, the gloves, eggs [...]

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From Worrying to Trusting

Apr 6 2011 in , by Denise

This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Karol Ward, author of Worried Sick: Break Free from Chronic Worry to Achieve Mental & Physical Health, joined me to talk about how we can move from worrying to trusting. You can listen to our show via the player, below. Kard, who cares for mom, explained the two categories [...]

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Think 90%

Apr 2 2011 in , by Denise

This morning on Your Caregiving Journey, Holly, who cares for her husband, joined me for Table Talk. Today, we talked about planning for the future when the future seem so fuzzy. You can listen to our show via the player below. Holly offered a suggestion she learned in a leadership book by John Maxwell: Focus [...]

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Have a Little Faith

Mar 14 2011 in , by Trish

Trying to make myself not worry last night was a little like telling a first grader to stop messing with her loose tooth.  Instantly, it becomes priority number one. Robert doesn’t worry about anything. He just says a quick prayer if he wants to beat me at cards or he wants it to stop raining. [...]

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What? Me Worry?

Mar 13 2011 in by Trish

Dare I not worry?  Before you faint at the prospect of me, the best Worrier In The Californian Hemisphere (aka, “Witch”), turning over a new leaf and throwing worry out the window, I’m only talking for an evening.  Letting go for just a few hours.  I visited Robert today and he was doing just fine.  [...]

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Robert Has Moved!

Feb 2 2011 in by Trish

Robert moved in to his new place today. I was very worried about the move (did I pick the right place for him? Will he like it? How will he adjust to having a roommate?). Robert was excited. He told everyone at his Old Home that he was moving, when he was moving and that [...]

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