Baby, You Can Drive My Car, Beep Beep'm Beep Beep Yeah


Baby, You Can Drive My Car, Beep Beep'm Beep Beep Yeah

This is a Public Service Announcement for anyone who drives or eventually inherits an automobile from a caree. Good Luck With That.

I drove my mother's car since 2013 when I became her full-time caregiver in Florida. She has insurance with Allstate, with a 6-month renewal until Feb. 2016. She passed away in August. I continue to drive the car while I've been attending to her affairs, and also for personal reasons. Immediately after she passed, we met with our lawyer to have my sister appointed the executor of the will. He indicated my sister needed to first be appointed the executor, and then she could sign the title of the car over to me. It has been over two months and we are still waiting for the courts to finalize my sister as executor.

The registration on the car came due. I took the car title, the death certificate and the current Allstate insurance to the DMV and spread them on the counter like a Tarot deck. The DMV clerk said I needed to get insurance in my name, and then I could renew the registration. I could not by-pass the probate system; we had to wait until my sister was executor and signed over the title to me, but I could renew the current registration with proof of insurance. Once the car title was in my name, I would have to go back and get a new registration with me as owner, but I could renew the tags with proof of insurance.

I found a State Farm agent and took out a policy in my name on the car. While I was speaking with her, I asked if I was covered at the time and she said everything was fine since I was covered on my auto policy from my home in Ohio.

I returned to the DMV and the same agent, who now indicated that no, I did not have previous coverage, had not had coverage since my mother's death, did not have permission to drive her car since a dead person can not give permission, and the only person who should have been driving the car since my mother's death was my sister, the executor, and then only for purposes of repairs or driving to the DMV. He downloaded these rules on his computer and handed them to me.

I had to sit down to avoid having a small stroke, to think I was driving for over two months with no insurance. In South Florida. It felt like when you are doing home repairs and uncover a mess of brown, burnt hot electrical wires which could have burned your house down at any second but hadn't done it yet. I told the clerk, "the insurance agent had said I was covered" and he said, "insurance agents don't know what they're talking about."

The downloaded rules also indicated that if a car is going to be sold, it should be sold quickly. My question is, how can it be sold quickly if it takes two months to simply be appointed executor, so you have the right to sell the car in the first place?

I was able to get renewed tags on the car. Back at home I called the Allstate agent to cancel my mother's policy. This agent indicated that I cannot insure what I don't own, so I had no right to take out insurance on the car in my name. He said her current policy was still in effect, I should cancel the State Farm policy in my name, I was covered with my insurance from Ohio, I needed to be a listed driver on my mother's current policy, and not to trust the DMV civil servant who "didn't know anything anyway." My Ohio insurance agent said I should cancel the Allstate insurance and have my mother's estate listed as an additional insured on the State Farm Insurance.

So right now I have three auto insurance policies covering me. Why do I still want to cower in my garage? Does anybody really know what time it is?

When I have an answer for this, I will add it to the list of Your Must Knows.


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<a href='' rel=\"nofollow\"></a><a href='' rel=\"nofollow\"><a href='' rel=\"nofollow\">@janshriver</a></a>, how exasperating! If only this were a rare occurrence in the maze of dealing with estate issues. Luckily we had easy time transferring the car and P already had his name on MIL's insurance. However...\n\nWe are still (1-1/2 years after her death), trying to change the name on the mortgage or refinance. The bank told us although we both had exceptional credit ratings, we had no recent history of installment payments so they declined our loan. Da, who do they think had been paying the mortgage for the last year and 1-1/2. And they still haven't change the name on the mortgage and the tax interest statements still come in her name.\nWe are in process refinancing with another bank and they keep asking for more and more documentation. Sigh.

Chris MacLellan

Only in South Florida!


Oh my gosh... in my journey with my Dad these past couple of months, I've learned that NOTHING is every easy or straight forward! And many times, I come away feeling like \"no good deed goes unpunished.\" So many people drive without insurance, titles, licenses, etc. and just don't worry about it. Me? No way, I have to stay on the up &amp; up. But with stories like this, I am starting to think that maybe some of those \"rebellious\" people out there who aren't following the rules, simply couldn't figure them out or just gave up! \n\nGood luck - and keep us posted on what the right answer turns out to be!


<a href='' rel=\"nofollow\">@janshriver</a>, you can't make this stuff up!


Oh, my gosh. I love the reactions from each individual contributing to the red tape. :) The Allstate agent makes sense to me but what do I know? It's never easy and it's always complicated. \n\n(I do have to admit that any time I've been in Florida, I've been so grateful that <a href='' rel=\"nofollow\">@thpurplejacket</a> has driven. I drive into downtown Chicago all the time. But, driving in South Florida put fear in my heart. Haven't seen anything like those drivers on I95 anywhere else. I get why the thought you haven't had insurance made you quake in your boots.)

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