Mom's Shopping Trips, Just Because....

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Mom's Shopping Trips, Just Because....

atisMOM
walletMy mom is very keen on when her monthly check comes in. I get excited anticipating her excitement. My husband and I have always done our best to do outings with her and to make sure she has money in her wallet, just because. :-)

My family can't seem to understand why we continue to give her money for her wallet because "she never really goes anywhere." Just because.... She gets excited and happy just knowing that she HAS her own money. Even if it's $1.00, she's happy! "Why do you guys take her to buy the same thing over and over again? Well just because! She's happy with a million new washcloths, 10 million towels. (I exaggerate, but she has A LOT). My husband and I find joy in her happiness at the store when she grabs what she wants and whatever she can fit in her arm on her lap. :-)

So for August, our shopping trip is for.... sweaters. lol! "Mom, you have a ton of sweaters!" To that my mom replies, "Can I get the ones with flowers on them?" Ooook. :-) Please don't misunderstand, we are far from being well-off. We do continue with our financial struggles, but it's not her fault that she's in the state that she's in right?!?! Even when none of her incontinent supplies and medication etc. were covered by insurance, we always made sure she had something!

Sometimes I feel like the bad days outweigh the good days by a whole lot. :-( But  it's great days like that, that make it all worth it!

Have a great day/evening my Caregiving.com family!

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atisMOM

Rebecca....\r\nGod bless you too! This is why I love this site! It feels so good to have someone aside from my husband who truly understands! Getting teary eyed here just feeling content and comforted....

atisMOM

Hi Pegi! Shopping for her sweater with flowers is set for this Sunday! She's already reminding me daily with her countdown.... \"Today is Wednesday, Sunday we buy my sweater?\" lol.

atisMOM

I hear you Richard! During shopping trips it's gratifying to see my mom smile and wave at strangers. Sometimes it shocks them! And yes, getting her out of the house is always therapeutic.... especially shopping therapy vs. Dr.'s appointments;-)

atisMOM

Thank you BobinMO! This brought a happy \"mist\" to my eyes! I totally agree, the simplest things that brings joy to her just warms our hearts! Seeing her sense of independency when she's able to take out her own money and pay for things is priceless. Then it's \"Ok, I'll buy $1 ice creams for everyone!\" Hahaha.... And 5k A/C?!?! Niiiice lol.... I prefer being cool rather than warm. Which is ironic being that I was born and raised in Hawaii lol. But that A/C sounds like heaven to me! Happy wounds healing:-)